Generated by All in One SEO v5.0.1.1, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. # Bobi Ann Allen merging Biblical truth with real-life living ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://bobiann.com/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Blog](https://bobiann.com/blog/) - [Boundaries Aren’t the Enemy. Burnout Is.](https://bobiann.com/boundaries-arent-the-enemy-burnout-is/) - “The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; surely I have a delightful inheritance.” —Psalm 16:6 We talk a lot about boundaries in relationships—how to set them with others, how to guard our hearts, how to say no. But there’s another kind of boundary that often gets overlooked: the ones we need to - [The Identity Project--Lesson 8](https://bobiann.com/the-identity-project-lesson-8/) - [8 reasons fear is powerless for a Christ-follower](https://bobiann.com/8-reasons-fear-is-powerless-for-a-christ-follower/) - Fear is both powerful and universal. No matter a person's station in life, we all experience fear. But as a Christ follower, you don't have to be bound to the grip of fear in your life. Those who are hidden in Christ are guarded against the powers of enemy. He is the victor and you - [10 verses to cultivate kindness](https://bobiann.com/10-verses-to-cultivate-kindness/) - Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.--Ephesians 4:29 (NIV) They also will answer, "Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or - [The Identity Project--Lesson 5](https://bobiann.com/the-identity-project-lesson-5/) - https://vimeo.com/938256889?share=copy - [The Identity Project--Lesson 7](https://bobiann.com/the-identity-project-lesson-7/) - 1 Peter 2:11-12 (The Message) Philippians 3:20 2 Corinthians 2:15 Proverbs 4:23 Ephesians 4:29 - [The Identity Project--Lesson 6](https://bobiann.com/identity-project-lesson-6/) - Romans 5 James 4:6 - [The Identity Project--Lesson 4](https://bobiann.com/the-identity-project-lesson-4/) - References: Jeremiah 29:14 Proverbs 14:12 Hosea 3:1-3 2 Timothy 2:13 2 Corinthians 5:21 - [5 practices to foster unity among believers](https://bobiann.com/5-practices-to-foster-unity-among-believers/) - It's no secret that the church has long grappled with a lack of unity and harmony among members. This is especially true during challenging transitions or interpretation of the Scriptures. We may differ from one another on certain matters, but if we can come together on Jesus and the gospel, we've found the most important - [why does God care so much about money?](https://bobiann.com/why-does-god-care-so-much-about-money/) - Ever wonder why money seems to be such a big deal to God? It's not because He needs our cash. It's because He knows that money plays a crucial role in our lives. God is not concerned about the number in our bank account but rather what is in our hearts. So why does God - [The Identity Project--Lesson 3](https://bobiann.com/the-identity-project-lesson-3/) - references: 1 Peter 2:9 Exodus 25:21-22 NKJV Hebrew 10:19 - [The Identity Project--Lesson 2](https://bobiann.com/the-identity-project-lesson-2/) - references: "You believe only what you act on, the rest is just religious talk."--Unknown 2 Corinthians 5:17 John 10:10 John 1:12 Ephesians 1:18-19 Functional Deism 1 John 3:1 NIV Ephesians 1:5 NLT Romans 8:38-39 TLB - [The Identity Project--Lesson 1](https://bobiann.com/tip1/) - references: You Are a Writer (so start acting like one) by Jeff Goins 2 Corinthians 5:17 Matthew 7:24-27 - [6 ways to fight the spiritual battle in your mind](https://bobiann.com/6-ways-to-fight-the-spiritual-battle-in-your-mind/) - You have an enemy and he wants nothing good for you. Even if our circumstances are good, we may not be experiencing good in our mind. Our mind is a battlefield where the enemy seeks to draw our focus away from the safety we have in Christ and instead stir within us unrest because a - [spiritual warfare: what it is and how to defend against in our daily lives](https://bobiann.com/spiritual-warfare-what-it-is-and-how-to-defend-against-in-our-daily-lives/) - As Christians, we often hear the term “spiritual warfare” in church settings or during our personal devotions. But what does it actually mean? What does this battle look like, and how can we defend ourselves against it in our everyday lives? In this article, we’ll explore the concept of spiritual warfare, what the Bible says - [what controls you?](https://bobiann.com/what-controls-you/) - I've always heard it said that everybody worships something--if you aren't worshiping God, it doesn't mean you don't worship. You just worship something else. The same is true with control. Everyone is controlled by something. You may be controlled by the expectations of others, shame, a substance or habit. Everyone is controlled by something everyday. - [6 reasons you can let God be God instead of you](https://bobiann.com/6-reasons-you-can-let-god-be-god-instead-of-you/) - I don't think anything resonates more with the human heart than the desire to be in control. We see the evidence of the desire for control in toddlers throwing tantrums to adults manipulating people they claim to love. The desire to control is rooted in a false belief we are more powerful than we are. - [known by Him](https://bobiann.com/known-by-him/) - We've all done it. Confidently greet an acquaintance by name. A week or so later, you proudly address them by name again, but notice a slight wince as you say their name. And then the light bulb appears above your head and you realize you've called them the wrong name. Palm to - [Hello, My Name Is...](https://bobiann.com/hello-my-name-is-and-a-giveaway/) - We've all done it. You see an acquaintance and confidently greet them by name. You see them a week or so later in a different situation and you proudly address them by name, but you notice they wince just a bit each time you say their name. And then a theoretical light bulb appears - [a Jesus-follower's resume](https://bobiann.com/a-jesus-followers-resume/) - Chosen (Ephesians 1:4) Not lacking any gift (1 Corinthians 1:7) Redeemed (Ephesians 1:7) Obtained an Inheritance (Ephesians 1:11) Marked with the seal of the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 1:13) Loaded with Power (Romans 8:11) A Planned Event (Ephesians 2:10) Joint Heir with Jesus (Romans 8:17) New Creation (2 Corinthians 5:17) God's Child (Galatians 3:26) Forgiven (Ephesians - [plan to rest](https://bobiann.com/plan-to-rest/) - You don't mean to not rest--it kind of just happens. You say yes to too many things and the next thing you know, you're exhausted with no foreseen break. God instituted rest when He gave a newly freed slaves a set of rules (the Ten Commandments) to live by now that they were free. Resting - [when you can't sleep](https://bobiann.com/when-you-cant-sleep/) - Do you find sleep frustrating? Maybe you drift off quickly and then find yourself awake during the night working through problems and unable to turn off your brain. Or maybe you can't quite wind down in the evenings and though you are physically exhausted, you can't quite settle in enough to sleep. Sleep can elude - [roadblocks to transformation](https://bobiann.com/roadblocks-to-transformation/) - Paul explained the Christian life as a journey of transformation to become the exact image of the glory of God. Before we are perfected in the presence of God in heaven, we are BEING perfected and transformed even now. And for an excellent reason. God is transforming us because of His extravagant love for us. - [5 verses to pray when seeking direction](https://bobiann.com/5-verses-to-pray-when-seeking-direction/) - What do you do when there is no clear right answer and there’s no obvious wrong one?As a follower of Jesus, we need God’s direction in every area of our lives. And He wants to offer it. One of the best ways to seek God's direction is by praying His words to Him. God responds - [8 Prayers to Pray Over the Women in Your Life](https://bobiann.com/8-prayers-to-pray-over-the-women-in-your-life/) - I'm a women's minister by vocation. If you googled my name, you'd find my picture and title on a church website because I've been labeled a Minister to Women. But, that title isn't what makes me a minister to women. I'm a minister to women because the Holy Spirit resides in me and God has - [the forgotten resource for understanding the Bible](https://bobiann.com/the-forgotten-resource-for-understanding-the-bible/) - I have recently shared on my social media eight resources to help you understand the Bible (which I will share below). However, after I shared them, I realized there was a necessary resource that is often forgotten when seeking to understand the Bible. I'm not going to bury the lead, so here it is. The forgotten resource - [7 tips to understanding the Bible](https://bobiann.com/7-tips-to-understanding-the-bible/) - Reading the Bible correctly is essential because you can misunderstand its meaning if you don’t know the right way to approach it. It’s also crucial that your own bias or worldview doesn’t get in the way of understanding the Bible correctly. So whether you are preparing to teach a Bible study or want to be - [8 truths to remember when approaching Christian community](https://bobiann.com/8-truths-to-remember-when-approaching-christian-community/) - One: Christian community is God's idea and plan for reaching the world with the gospel. As much as we would like to be independent, self-sufficient beings, the reality is we DO, in fact, need each other. There is a tension between carrying someone's burdens and boundaries, but isolation isn't the answer to that tension. Acknowledging your - [why you shouldn't give up on community altogether--especially the church](https://bobiann.com/why-you-shouldnt-give-up-on-community-altogether-especially-church/) - I've had conversations with people who have been genuinely hurt by a community (and sometimes even a "Christian" community). I can relate. I've been hurt by community (even Christian community at times). The temptation when we are hurt is to run, to write off community all together because community is where the hurt happened. I - [a tool for cultivating quiet to connect with Jesus](https://bobiann.com/a-tool-for-cultivating-quiet-to-connect-with-jesus/) - I have a busy mind, which can simultaneously be beneficial and detrimental. I'm constantly processing and thinking through problems. I'm making plans and strategizing toward goals. My mind and heart can feel crowded and noisy sometimes. Through a series of events (including my content theme for this month: filling our minds), I've been reintroduced to - [it is time to fill your mind with something different](https://bobiann.com/it-is-time-to-fill-your-mind-with-something-different/) - Think about what you are inputting into your mind. Is it life-giving, does it draw you closer to Jesus? Thinking about your input isn't a matter of legalism, it is a matter of actively choosing what influences your thoughts. Our thoughts are not only influenced by our entertainment choices and social media. Our thoughts are also influenced - [Tips to Improve Employees' Work-Life Balance](https://bobiann.com/tips-to-improve-employees-work-life-balance/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [Better Relationships and Communication](https://bobiann.com/better-relationships-and-communication/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [7 Key Habits For Building Better Relationships](https://bobiann.com/7-key-habits-for-building-better-relationships/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [Building Good Work Relationships](https://bobiann.com/building-good-work-relationships/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [Build Healthy and Happy Relationship](https://bobiann.com/build-healthy-and-happy-relationship/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [How Successful People Think](https://bobiann.com/how-successful-people-think/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [How to Fight Anxiety with Rejoicing](https://bobiann.com/how-to-fight-anxiety-with-rejoicing/) - It's been a while since I've written about my anxiety, and there are multiple reasons for that. One reason is that most of the time, my struggle with anxiety is manageable. But it is still there. The second reason is that I don't want to just talk about anxiety. It is not what defines me; - [how to be a Christ-centered communicator-part 2](https://bobiann.com/how-to-be-a-christ-centered-communicator-part-2/) - I'm keenly aware of the frequent breakdown in communication that happens in our daily lives. From misunderstanding what another driver is doing to misreading the intent of words or body language from a supervisor, parent or spouse. We are constantly dealing with the complicated reality of communicating well and effectively. In part 1 of How - [how to be a Christ-centered communicator-part 1](https://bobiann.com/how-to-be-a-christ-centered-communicator-part-1/) - Communication is a very general topic. But, your success as a communicator impacts every area of your life--from your job to marriage and parenting to how you interact with Christ-followers and non-Christ-followers. Thankfully, the Bible speaks to how we (as His ambassadors) are to communicate in any given situation. Because communication requires learned finesse and - [what self-awareness isn't](https://bobiann.com/what-self-awareness-isnt/) - Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life.Galatians 6:4-5 (The Message) Self-awareness is vitally important - [why we need to be biblically self-aware](https://bobiann.com/why-we-need-to-be-biblically-self-aware/) - Self-awareness can be an essential tool in sanctification (becoming more like Jesus), but it can quickly turn into a self-centric exercise that has little to do with Jesus and a lot to do with well, self, depending on how we approach it. It can be tempting (in an effort to avoid self-centeredness) to avoid seeking a - [3 tiny habits to improve self-control](https://bobiann.com/3-tiny-habits-to-improve-self-control/) - I'm utterly convinced self-control is a missing piece in the spiritual walk of many Christians. It isn't the most fun topic, but by neglecting self-control, we stunt our spiritual growth and miss out on the fullness of what God wants to do in and through us. Self-control is one of the fruits of a life - [self-control doesn't have to be legalistic](https://bobiann.com/self-control-doesnt-have-to-be-legalistic/) - "Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control."—Proverbs 25:28 If you were to ask me how I would describe the culture we live in today, I would sum it up in one word—indulgent. Sure, that doesn't represent everyone, but self-indulgence is rampant. If it looks tasty, we eat it. - [9 verses about righteous determination](https://bobiann.com/9-verses-about-righteous-determination/) - Righteous determination involves recognizing that on our own (apart from the work of God's Spirit in us), we will wander from Jesus. When tough times comes, our flesh will choose the comfortable, easy path. But with a determination not in our flesh but in surrendering our flesh to God, we can experience a freedom and - [8 phrases you'll hear from a determined Jesus-follower](https://bobiann.com/8-phrases-youll-hear-from-a-determined-jesus-follower/) - The Bible speaks a lot about determination without actually using the word determination. It talks about resolving and deciding what you will do and whom you will submit. One of my favorite verses regarding spiritual determination is about the Old Testament prophet, Daniel. “Daniel determined in his heart not to defile himself.”--Daniel 1:8 Daniel made - [3 habits to help with priorities](https://bobiann.com/3-habits-to-help-with-priorities/) - I wonder if everyone struggles with priorities. I mean if someone isn't “doing” much, are priorities still an issue? Are they able to line everything up in the correct order and it all just stays where it belongs? That’s not really the point of this post--it’s more just ponderings I have. If you are a - [how would you answer this one question?](https://bobiann.com/how-would-you-answer-this-one-question/) - I've been thinking a lot lately about priorities--mainly because it's been my January theme on social media and I've created several posts about it. But, it turns out that priorities are showing up everywhere I turn and God has been revealing some new insights about where to start when it comes to re-orienting our priorities. - [5 ways to find contentment in the midst of change](https://bobiann.com/5-ways-to-find-contentment-in-the-midst-of-change/) - There aren't many constants in life. It has been said you can always count on death and taxes--which seems right. As a follower of Jesus, I know from experience that God is constant--the same yesterday, today and forever. And change--Change. Is. Constant. Whether its the weather, your age, hair color or culture. You can count - [Coming Unhinged](https://bobiann.com/coming-unhinged/) - “We cannot become what we want to be by remaining what we are.”Max DePree The front door was literally off its hinges. The movers used some kind of screwdriver thingy to remove it because the big pieces wouldn’t fit through the door without removing the hinges. It was an appropriate visual as I felt my - [shifting your perspective requires courage](https://bobiann.com/shifting-your-perspective-requires-courage/) - I don't like words like "required" or "allowed." They sounds so rigid and absolute. But I read a quote recently that said, "Shifting your perspective requires you to be courageous." I read and re-read those eight words considering what they meant and if I really agreed. I've done my fair share of research and study - [10 Steps to Awaken Femininity](https://bobiann.com/10-steps-to-awaken-femininity/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [Astrology: the Basics and Love Compatibility](https://bobiann.com/astrology-the-basics-and-love-compatibility/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [Market & Run Your Own Successful Business](https://bobiann.com/market-run-your-own-successful-business/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [How to Choose Your Therapist](https://bobiann.com/how-to-choose-your-therapist/) - Femininity Femininity (also called womanliness or girlishness) is a set of attributes, behaviors, and roles generally associated with women and girls. Although sociologists think of femininity as socially constructed, there is also widespread recognition that some behaviors considered feminine are influenced by both cultural factors and biological factors. To what extent femininity is biologically or - [You Have A Choice](https://bobiann.com/you-have-a-choice/) - Whether you turn on the news, scroll through social media or even listen to your own self-talk, it can feel like constant bombardment of negativity. Everything seems and sounds bad, broken and hopeless. But we sometimes equate a skewed perspective with truth. And the reality is (despite popular opinion), your (or someone else's) experience isn't - [I'm Not a Good Bet...Are You?](https://bobiann.com/dont-take-a-risk-on-me/) - Sometimes we look at a challenge before us and we know we simply don't have what it takes to do what God is asking us to do. The challenge is BIG and we...are not. We are scared off from what looks like too big a risk. If you open the Bible, this scenario is God's - [take a risk](https://bobiann.com/take-a-risk/) - As a Christ-follower, I'm not okay with status-quo. If I am, I don't know what the big deal of following Jesus is. Jesus is calling you and me to more. He is calling us to experience His transforming work that comes when step outside our comfort zone and risk losing control. - [6 Steps to Resolve Conflict](https://bobiann.com/6-steps-to-resolve-conflict/) - Have you noticed that everyone seems so angry these days? Whether it's about when to start putting out Christmas decorations or who has the right to do or say what--emotions are high and feeling are tender. Which means that more likely than not, if you are reading this, there is someone who you have hurt - [this is about lying--not rest](https://bobiann.com/this-is-about-lying-not-rest/) - I’m working on some fresh content on rest to speak to a group of women at a sister church in our town. I didn’t choose the topic. I not only didn’t choose the topic, but I didn’t want to speak on the topic of rest. In fact, when I chatted with the contact from the church after - [how to make your kids uncomfortable](https://bobiann.com/how-to-make-your-kids-uncomfortable/) - Life is comfortable when you separate yourself from people who are different from you...But God doesn't call us to be comfortable. He calls us to trust Him so completely that we are unafraid to put ourselves in situations where we will be in trouble if He doesn't come through.Francis Chan School started for the younger - [3 Ways To Create Margin in Your Overcrowded Life](https://bobiann.com/3-ways-to-create-margin-in-your-overcrowded-life-2/) - Even as you read this post, you are experiencing margin. Margin is the space on either side of the print with nothing–nothing but white. Space where you might add an occasional note or pause to absorb what you read. Margin isn’t necessary only in publishing, margin is necessary for contentment in our lives. Are you experiencing an - [17 Crazy Compelling Ways to Enjoy The Life You Have (regardless of your circumstances)](https://bobiann.com/enjoylife/) - I recently had someone ask: how do I enjoy the present life vs 'in a few years it'll be better' life or simply enjoying the season we are in? She would hardly be the only one who feels this urge for more--an unsettling in our current life situation and a longing for something different. Jennifer - [canceled--navigating differences in relationships](https://bobiann.com/canceled-navigating-difference-in-relationships/) - Today's post starts with a preface: As a leader in ministry, I’m convinced there are some who believe better about me than I am and think I know more than I do. I have questions come in that instead of having an answer, I find myself struggling with similar questions because though Scripture gives us - [What are non-Christians looking for?](https://bobiann.com/what-are-non-christians-looking-for/) - I recently came across a quote from Carey Nieuwhof (who I happen to love) that read, You can't reach a secular culture by being more secular. You can reach it by becoming more authentic.Carey Nieuwhof I felt that short little quote summed up what I'm about to spend probably 600+ words writing in response to - [4 thoughts on re-parenting yourself](https://bobiann.com/4-thoughts-on-re-parenting-yourself/) - Reparenting...its an interesting word and one that was brought to my attention with a question from a young mom who wanted to know how she could reparent herself. Reparent yourself? What do you mean? She explained to me about her own family of origin. She grew up in dysfunction with parents who didn't model a - [When God Stepped Into My Marriage](https://bobiann.com/when-god-stepped-into-my-marriage/) - It's been a while since I had a guest on my blog. I wasn't really planning on having one this time either until my friend and prayer partner, Tami, shared with me the story of God intervening in her marriage and I couldn't NOT share it with you. Most of you reading this don't know - [3 ways to (actually) embrace a rhythm of rest](https://bobiann.com/3-ways-to-actually-embrace-a-rhythm-of-rest/) - I'm continuing a series of questions people have reached out and asked. This one came from a homeschool mom whose question was: "how do I rest? especially calming my mind as a homeschool parent." I know its not just me (or the mom asking the question) who finds rest and a calm mind allusive. There - [to speak up or not to speak up...it really is the question!](https://bobiann.com/to-speak-up-or-not-to-speak-up-it-really-is-the-question/) - I mentioned in my previous post that I'm going to take some time to answer some questions--not because I'm an expert but because the question was asked and it's what I'm aware some women who love Jesus are thinking about. Today's question: I have found many in my circle to be very hesitant to speak - [are U.S. Christians headed toward persecution?](https://bobiann.com/are-u-s-christians-headed-toward-persecution/) - Have you ever found yourself doing something you would rather not do and realizing you're totally to blame for having to do it in the first place? Obviously, the answer is yes because anything worth doing involves parts you’d rather not do. That’s this post—and ones to follow in the coming weeks. I had the - [4 ways to zero in on God’s presence when you can’t seem to find it](https://bobiann.com/4-ways-to-zero-in-on-gods-presence-when-you-cant-seem-to-find-it/) - I never imagined it would have been so many months since I sat down to write. I identify as a writer and so not writing seems strange. It’s not for lack of material that I haven’t written. The happenings in our culture throughout the last year has provided plenty to comment on but the happenings - [can I think new thoughts?](https://bobiann.com/can-i-think-new-thoughts/) - I've recently spent a considerable amount of time studying and learning more about how to align my thoughts with God's thoughts. I've been daily working through Romans 12:2, “Do not be conformed to the patterns of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” There are days it feels like a futile - [Help! I'm a Homeschool Mom](https://bobiann.com/help-im-a-homeschool-mom/) - Did you find yourself doing the very thing you never dreamed you would do this year? Are you a homeschool mom? Aaaaaagh! I have to start by telling you (not in a trite way but in the sincerest way I know) how proud I am of you. I prayed about what I could write - [The New School Year Resolution Every Christian Should To Make](https://bobiann.com/the-new-school-year-resolution-every-christian-should-to-make/) - Sure, there are plenty of people who the start of school does not affect. However, I can't imagine there are many because the school traffic alone is enough to impact your daily routine whether you are part of the school system or not. From where I sit, going back to school is the single most - [For the Fathers](https://bobiann.com/for-the-fathers/) - Men, in general, are not my target audience. However, with today being Father's Day, I'm sharing some observations. I was seven months pregnant with our daughter, Kati Ann, when we moved from East Texas to Huntsville, Alabama, to serve at Willowbrook. Like most first-time parents, Jared and I were like two deer in the headlights - [Why It's Hard to Live in the Moment](https://bobiann.com/why-its-hard-to-live-in-the-moment/) - I remember growing up, sitting at the dinner table with my brother and my parents, listening to and watching my parents. They had pencil and paper and were planning, dreaming about the future. They spoke about things they wanted to save for and projects they wanted to tackle. My parents would talk about building an - [what is missing in our world that you may not have considered](https://bobiann.com/what-is-missing-in-our-world-that-you-may-not-have-considered/) - I almost hesitate to write this post because I'm certain there will be someone who reads it from a skewed frame of reference and takes my words to be less or more than they are--and I guess that's the point of why I felt like it needed to be written. My heart is burdened for - [Are You An Initiator or A Responder?](https://bobiann.com/the-power-of-initiation/) - My husband, Jared often says there are 2 kinds of people in the world: initiators and responders. By that he means, if you walked into a room of people you didn't know you would either, 1) walk up to someone and introduce yourself or 2) wait until someone walked up to you and began to make conversation. - [thriving through COVID-19 with God's love](https://bobiann.com/thriving-through-covid-19-with-gods-love/) - “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the - [4 Ways To Trust God While You Wait](https://bobiann.com/4-ways-to-trust-god-while-you-wait/) - In society of instant messaging and microwavable meals, waiting isn’t easy. It isn’t so much the wait in line at the store or at the bus stop for a ride. It is the wait for God’s timing. It is the wait for a spouse, a baby, a job promotion or the next season of life. - [meeting with God doesn't just happen](https://bobiann.com/meeting-with-god-doesnt-just-happen/) - I was talking with a group of moms with preschoolers this week and I was encouraging them in their personal relationship with God as a benefit to them as mothers and wives. I didn't have much time and even as I was speaking, I thought...man, this needs more...some real application tied to it. Thankfully, I - [14 Wickedly Effective Ways To Pray Through Anxiety](https://bobiann.com/14-wickedly-effective-ways-to-pray-through-anxiety/) - Anxiety. It’s that weird word that if you’ve ever really experienced it holds so much meaning it seems there should be more letters in it! It's this combination of worry and fear and physical responses all wrapped into one. Before I go into this list, I need to say a few things. First of all, - [when your new year goals get derailed](https://bobiann.com/when-your-new-year-goals-get-derailed/) - The new year is the perfect time to set new goals and just go for it. Everywhere you turn, people are talking about resolutions and goals. From the nightly news to social media feeds, it's what we're thinking about, what we're talking about. But what we're not talking about is what happens when our goals - [do you feel overwhelmed?](https://bobiann.com/do-you-feel-overwhelmed/) - It's almost that time--time to switch from your everyday overwhelmed to your festive, Christmas overwhelmed! But wait! An overwhelmed heart is not necessary for the holidays. Yet, for many of us it feels like a package deal. Holidays=overwhelmed As we enter into a time of Thanksgiving and Christmas, we have the opportunity to remind ourselves - [The Lead-Up Led Us Here](https://bobiann.com/the-lead-up-led-us-here/) - Tomorrow, we'll wake up with our family of four in our home together on Christmas morning. We'll exchange gifts, read the Christmas story and make memories I hope to cherish for a lifetime. The Christmas season is hectic and busy and sometimes leaves me feeling guilty for wishing it were all over with. I realize - [Who Is In Charge of the World--God or Satan?](https://bobiann.com/who-is-in-charge-of-the-world-god-or-satan/) - In today's Ask The Blogger video we've got some doozies!! 1. How to know if the world is under God's rule rather than Satan's rule. 2. How to effectively "start where you are, use what you have, do what you can"--even when you're actually a really messed up human. Oh my goodness, that second question - [But...My Family Doesn't Want To Go To Church](https://bobiann.com/but-my-family-doesnt-want-to-go-to-church/) - Happy Friday! It's finally turned cold for a lot of us and I just want to snuggle up with a blanket and a book. But today, I'm answering some new questions in our Ask The Blogger Series. Today's questions are: →What can I do to help my family when they have no desire to go - [Unhinged--Embracing Change](https://bobiann.com/unhinged-embracing-change/) - Sort of over the moon today! I'm over at (in)courage.me sharing part of my story of big changes from this past year! Head on over and look around! You might consider signing up for their daily email encouragements as well! I heart this site and know you will too! Unhinged “We cannot become what we want - [What To Do While You Wait](https://bobiann.com/what-to-do-while-you-wait/) - It has been a while since I've done an Ask The Blogger video. Today's questions came from Lindsey. She asked: 1. What do you have to say about trusting God in the waiting? 2. What is the best way to encourage a pastor's wife? It just so happens that I got another email just yesterday - [a contract or a covenant?](https://bobiann.com/4263-2/) - None of the good promises the Lord had made to the house of Israel failed. Everything was fulfilled.--Joshua 21:45 God had every reason to walk away from Israel. God had made promises to His people and they had made promises to Him. But it took Israel all of about 3 minutes to break their promises - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 1](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-1/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: (there is no homework prior to this video...you will have homework beginning next lesson) Listening guide: here Get Timeline: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Movie on 1-21-15 at 8.59 AM.export from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 3](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-3/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 1 Chronicles 10-16 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 4](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-4/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 1 Chronicles 17-20 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 2](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-2/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 1 Chronicles 1-9 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Chronicles--Lesson 2 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 5](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-5/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 1 Chronicles 21 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 6](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-6/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 1 Chronicles 22-29 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Chronicles--lesson 6 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 8](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-8/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 2 Chronicles 7-8 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Chronicles--Lesson 8 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 7](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-7/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 2 Chronicles 1-6 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Chronicles--Lesson 7 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 10](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-10/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 2 Chronicles 17-20 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here *Note the handouts for lesson 10 will also serve for the handouts for lesson 11 Chronicles--Lesson 10 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 9](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-9/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 2 Chronicles 9-13 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Divided Monarchy Handout Chronicles--Lesson 9 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 11](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-11/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 2 Chronicles 17-20 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Chronicles--Lesson 11 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [It Matters Where You Come From--Lesson 12](https://bobiann.com/it-matters-where-you-come-from-lesson-12/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: Read 2 Chronicles 21-36 Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here - [Be-Atitudes--Week 5](https://bobiann.com/be-atitudes-week-5/) - In a little 6-week study, week 5 got here before I was ready! Week 5 should mean we're winding down but instead it means we're ramping up! Up until this week, we've covered one beatitude per week. That's all well and good until you realize their are eight beatitudes and this is a 6 week - [Be-Atitudes--Week 6](https://bobiann.com/be-atitudes-week-6/) - This is it! And I'm going out with a bang! Ever wonder what it's like when the doorbell rings while I'm videoing?!? Find out at the end of the first video this week. To be honest, I was at the very, very end of recording and I just couldn't bring myself to recording it all - [Be-Atitudes--Week 4](https://bobiann.com/be-atitudes-week-4/) - This week we're going to study the blessedness of those who hunger and thirst after righteousness. I love this one. God has brought me a long way in my personal journey as I've learned what it means to embrace and depend on His righteousness over my own. When we learn to exchange our misguided standard - [Be-Atitudes Week 3](https://bobiann.com/be-atitudes-week-3/) - I am over the moon with the study of the Be-atitudes. God is opening my eyes to truths from His word which are proving to be convicting and transforming. I want to experience God's perfect plan for happiness and I know that won't happen in my current state. It happens as I allow God to - [Be-Atitudes--Week 2](https://bobiann.com/be-atitudes-week-2/) - In our previous lesson, we finished by studying the blessing received by those who recognized their destitute state apart from Jesus. The first beatitude is foundational for the rest of the beatitudes we will study over the coming weeks. In this week's lessons, we will consider what it means to mourn and why Jesus would - [Be-Atitudes-Week 1](https://bobiann.com/be-atitudes-week-1/) - As we begin a new study, please realize it will take some time and adjustment to figure out how and when you will add this study into your life. Choosing to study God's Word takes intentionally. It is making one choice to choose Jesus and then making the next choice. It is a series of - [Lead Yourself](https://bobiann.com/lead-yourself/) - “The real danger to both sides-for the Church and the other side, call it what you will—is the man who does not…listen to his deepest convictions, to his inner truth, but who only wants to fit, to float to conformity.” —Pope John Paul II When I was growing up, my family went camping every summer - [when you're too busy to grow](https://bobiann.com/when-youre-too-busy-to-grow/) - Do you have a desire to grow? Is there a list of things you feel you should be doing in order to grow personally and in relationship with God? I am constantly reminded by sermons, articles and books about what I'm supposed to be doing but I often think to myself, "when am I supposed - [Nothing Is Wasted](https://bobiann.com/nothing-is-wasted/) - Do you feel complete today? Is your heart at peace and satisfied? Whether you reply with a content nod or a sigh and realization of a restless mind and spirit, take a moment to acknowledge the Shepherd of your soul is available to provide for your individual needs. God is purposeful even in the midst - [Comparison Devastates Your Influence](https://bobiann.com/comparison-devastates-your-influence/) - Comparison suffocates influence and isn't your responsibility. - [HOME is here!](https://bobiann.com/home-is-here/) - It's here and it's out! I'm so excited to announce the new family devotional written by myself and my husband, Jared. [su_frame]Home Family Devotional is a 6-week devotional written in such a way to help teach children about spiritual disciplines that will nurture their spiritual growth.[/su_frame] Because, let’s be honest, this parenting gig is no - [Finding Contentment: The Go-To Guide](https://bobiann.com/finding-contentment-the-go-to-guide/) - There is an angst in each of us for something--a form of happiness where our soul breathes deep and we find our heart satisfied. Are you feeling the ache for fulfillment and rest? Does your heart yearn for a life filled with peace and joy? Your hunger for something new, something life-altering is evidence of - [Three Questions To Ask When Setting Priorities](https://bobiann.com/three-questions-to-ask-when-setting-priorities/) - I'm so thrilled to be over at Elisa Morgan's site today talking about priorities. Run on the treadmill, read my Bible, a night out with the girls, clean the house, feed the dog, volunteer at my child's school, date my husband ... so many choices on how to spend my time, and all of them - [The S word](https://bobiann.com/the-s-word/) - My husband has been preaching through a sermon series entitled "Family Matters." As he was preparing, he asked me if I would write something about submission. I sat down and this is what I wrote: When I first began a growing relationship with God, I could get behind most of what I read in the - [Are You Wasting Your Life? Maybe Not.](https://bobiann.com/are-you-wasting-your-life-maybe-not/) - John Piper has a book called Don't Waste Your Life--and before you think I'm criticizing Piper--I'm not. So, take a deep breath. I love the challenges Piper presents in Don't Waste Your Life. That book has shaped my commitment to God and my passion to make the most of the short time I have on - [A Better God](https://bobiann.com/a-better-god/) - "What other nation is so great as to have their gods near them the way the Lord our God is near to us whenever we pray to him?"Deuteronomy 4:7 Have you considered the fact that the God of the Bible--the one, true God is better than any other god? Obviously, it's not hard to be - [2019 Word of the Year](https://bobiann.com/2019-word-of-the-year/) - Do you have a word of the year? For the past decade or so, our culture has trended toward encouraging a word to define what you hope for your year. I love the idea, but often struggle with narrowing it down to one concise word that packs the punch I really want. It makes sense - [Why Christians Are Afraid to Tell the Truth](https://bobiann.com/why-christians-are-afraid-to-tell-the-truth/) - I was watching the Today Show last week, when a story came on about a series one of the reporters was doing. The reporter was interviewing the mothers of "successful" people in our culture. From professional athletes to politicians to philathropers, the reporter was seeking out the secrets to raising a successful human being. As - [4 Steps To Engage Single Women in Ministry](https://bobiann.com/4-steps-to-engage-single-women-in-ministry/) - This post won't apply to everyone but I believe there are truths that apply to every area of ministry. Even prior to our move to Texas, I began praying about how God would continue to use my heart for women though my location and "title" was changing. I found my "spot" with a beautiful group - [How To Make the Most of Your Time With God](https://bobiann.com/how-to-make-the-most-of-your-time-with-god/) - In today's episode of Ask The Blogger, we are looking at two questions: 1. How do I get the most out of my quiet time? 2. How do I discover the gifts God plans to use in my life? Great questions! As I answered the second question, I mentioned a resource I wrote called 5 - [Spiritual People Are About Tiny Things](https://bobiann.com/spiritual-people-are-about-tiny-things/) - I'm taken by this excerpt from Mike Yaconelli's book Messy Spirituality: As you seek the adventure of God's plan for your life, you discover it is in the insignificant and small where God shows up and moves in powerful ways. There is a sweetness as we look back and remember His faithfulness and delight in - [Birthday Fun with my Kiddos](https://bobiann.com/birthday-fun-with-my-kiddos/) - Every year I ask my kids the same questions on their birthday. It's just a fun way to see how they change and grow over the years. Their birthdays are five days apart so its not too hard to get them together and quiz them down. Here are this year's answers: Kie 1. How old - [The Heartbreak Around Us](https://bobiann.com/heartbreak/) - In light of the events that have taken place in the last few weeks and months in our nation, I've reflected on what my response as a Christian leader but mainly a Jesus-follower should look like. There has been racial conflict, governmental conflict and political conflict to top off the daily reality of tense relationships, - [40 Under 40](https://bobiann.com/40-under-40/) - Okay, so this is kinda weird for me but I promised them I would do it. A few months back, I was nominated as one of the top 40 women in ministry leaders under the age of 40 in the nation. I was totally honored...like really...me!?! And then about two weeks ago, I was notified that - [A Brand New Study](https://bobiann.com/3275-2/) - Summer is winding down and the school year is right around the corner for our little family, here, in Central Texas. You may not have heard from me much this summer but I promise I haven't been twiddling my thumbs. I've been busy getting things set for the fall. I'm so excited to announce our - [What To Do When Friendships Change](https://bobiann.com/what-to-do-when-friendships-change/) - I recently received an email from a reader wanting some godly advice regarding a friendship that had changed over the years. Here is what she asked: I have a friend and we have been very good friends for the past 3-4 years. We would hang out a lot and I just really enjoyed spending time - [Unleashing Grace](https://bobiann.com/unleashing-grace/) - I'm really honored to be over at Leigh Power's site today writing about the struggle of perfectionism. Leigh offers resources for pastor's wives and I was thrilled to jump in and share my heart and experiences as a way to encourage other women serving in the calling as Pastor's wife. But by the grace - [Why We All Need to Believe the Best instead of Thinking the Worst](https://bobiann.com/why-we-all-need-to-believe-the-best-instead-of-thinking-the-worst/) - Last week I had the opportunity to hop over to Leigh Power's site and share about my ongoing struggle with perfectionism. Today, I'm super-excited that Leigh is joining us over here. Leigh Powers is a pastor’s wife, Bible study and devotional writer, freelance editor, and mother of three from small-town West Texas. She is passionate about helping - [how to really help your husband](https://bobiann.com/how-to-really-help-your-husband/) - I'm married to a pastor which means that life is a little different from some people's. However, marriage for a pastor and his wife isn't different because at the core it still involves a sinful man and a sinful woman. We struggle with many of the same things other couples do. You see, I’m first - [just for a moment](https://bobiann.com/moment/) - Do you need a moment? A moment of quiet and rest for your mind and heart? It's been within the past few weeks that I've suffered the spiritual effects of physical and emotional exhaustion. I can't point to any particular trauma or added stress. Instead, I'm dealing with the consequences of a week to week - [what's the point in following God if this is how it goes?](https://bobiann.com/whats-the-point-in-following-god-if-this-is-how-it-goes/) - Do you ever seem to struggle when you see non-Christians excelling in something and you wonder why it's not going as well for you? I know that God isn't a Genie.... I just question sometimes why it's so hard for me and not for others who aren't Christians. This is the question that showed up - [Laundry Detergent](https://bobiann.com/laundry-detergent/) - I'm going all Duggar on us. I've made my own laundry detergent now, twice. Yes, twice. I love it...it isn't that hard, for our family it lasts a really long time and it's inexpensive. I actually feel like my clothes are cleaner with this detergent. So, for this Pinterest review, I'm giving a huge thumbs - [When You Struggle Alongside Someone](https://bobiann.com/when-you-struggle-alongside-someone/) - As you may remember, I have served as the Student Ministry Interim at our church for the last several months. It is funny how time has a way of marching on and with it comes seasons that are hard and taxing and seasons that are sweet and memorable. This season as the Interim Student Minister - [The 8 Biggest Quiet Time Mistakes and What To Do About Them](https://bobiann.com/8mistakes/) - Ah...the allusive quiet time. We know we should do it and we even want to but it's something that is just plain hard sometimes. Over the course of many years, I've learned some sure-fire ways to sabotage my quiet time. By knowing the pitfalls, we can position ourselves for success. Here are 8 mistakes I've - [What I Think About Women In Ministry](https://bobiann.com/what-i-think-about-women-in-ministry/) - A few years ago, I did a series of posts called Ask The Blogger. My readers sent in questions and I did my best to answer them. At the time I was sent the question, "What do you think about women in ministry?" I kept the question in the queue, but to be honest, I - [2018 Birthday Quizzes](https://bobiann.com/2018-birthday-quizzes/) - Kati Ann 1. How old are you? 11 2. What makes you happy? Poppy 3. What is your favorite animal? Unicorn 4. What is your favorite thing to eat? shrimp 5. What is your favorite things to do? go somewhere 6. What is your favorite TV show? Girl Meets World 7. What are you really - [5 ways to help your man be the leader you desire](https://bobiann.com/5-ways-to-help-your-man-be-the-leader-you-desire/) - I love meeting women who have gone before me and are willing to honestly share their experiences in life, ministry and marriage so I can learn and grow from their wisdom. My darling friend, Jodi Aiken, is a pastor's wife in Florida who God led on an interesting journey into ministry with her husband. When - [healing after pornography in your marriage](https://bobiann.com/healing-after-pornography-in-your-marriage/) - Brace yourself. This is a heavy one. But I don't want to be accused of tip-toeing around the hard topics and pornography is one of them. Pornography affects so many families. I'm grateful for my friend and fellow writer, Natalia, Drumm, faithfully taking on the topic of pornography in marriage. To read more from Natalia - [God has your situation firmly in check](https://bobiann.com/god-has-your-situation-firmly-in-check/) - Disclaimer: I like to read. It might be better stated that I like to learn. So, when I start a post with a quote from a historical church leader, I'm afraid it might come across as being something that it's not. As much as I like to read and learn, I don't often read the - [go ahead and just admit it](https://bobiann.com/go-ahead-and-just-admit-it/) - I'm Type A and embarrassingly independent. When there is a problem, I'm the determined type that tries to fix it even if I have no idea how. You should ask my husband. He gets nervous when he's out of town and I start pulling out the power tools. (I'm not known for my skills in - [the most important thing prayer accomplishes](https://bobiann.com/the-most-important-thing-prayer-accomplishes/) - A man arrives in heaven, and St. Peter is showing him around. After a while, they pass by a large warehouse, and the man inquires about what is inside. "Oh, you don’t want to see that," protests St. Peter. The man’s curiosity is piqued, and he demands to see inside. St. Peter opens the door, - [Leader Doesn't Always Mean Fixer](https://bobiann.com/leader-doesnt-always-mean-fixer/) - As a Type A leader in ministry, God has been working on me in the area of giving Him room to move and work instead of crowding Him out because I feel the need to be in control! I'm so honored to be over at womensministry.net today discussing leadership with an article I wrote called - [when you don't hear from me](https://bobiann.com/when-you-dont-hear-from-me/) - There is so much going on right now for me in ministry that I've hardly had a moment to drop in. So, when you don't hear from me, here's what's going on: First of all, I have a new writing project that I'm completely pumped about. My husband, Jared and I are in the process - [Naked for Jesus](https://bobiann.com/naked/) - I wrote in my journal this morning these words, Thank you, God for not asking me to walk around naked. Those words don't show up often in my prayers but today I needed some perspective. I am reading through the book of Isaiah and came to a passage that shocked me. ...at the same time - [The Best Advice](https://bobiann.com/the-best-advice/) - The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice--Proverbs 12:15 This morning we sat around the breakfast table reading our daily family devotions when we came upon this verse. The words, "...the wise listen to advice" rang in my ears. How many times do we spurn advice when we simply - [what you don't want me to pray for you](https://bobiann.com/what-you-dont-want-me-to-pray-for-you/) - "I pray the Lord may make you feel yourself to be undone, ruined, lost, cast away, and then there is no fear of your rejecting Christ, for he that is perfectly bankrupt is willing to accept a Savior; he that has nothing of his own, falls flat before the cross, and takes gladly the 'all - [Kids' 2017 Birthday Quiz](https://bobiann.com/kids-2017-birthday-quiz/) - Kati Ann 1. How old are you? 10 2. What makes you happy? Poppy 3. What is your favorite animal? Poppy 4. What is your favorite thing to eat? shrimp 5. What is your favorite things to do? farting 6. What is your favorite TV show? Liv & Maddie 7. What are you really good - [revisiting a place of growth](https://bobiann.com/revisiting-a-place-of-growth/) - Summer is winding down and more than any other summer before as a parent, I chose to make it count. As a result, this has been the absolute most fun summer ever! Yet, while I was making it count at home, you were on my heart. I've missed you. I've missed sharing some of what - [the most important thing we learned this summer](https://bobiann.com/the-most-important-thing-we-learned-this-summer/) - If you follow me on Instagram, you may have seen my post from the first day of school: Of course, what it doesn't say is "we did it...we all made it to the end of summer in one piece!" Because let's be honest, summer is fun but it can be hard to be out of - [When Your Mama Is Your Biggest Fan](https://bobiann.com/when-your-mama-is-your-biggest-fan/) - I received a text from my mom that said "Why don't you write a blog post about speaking in Trinidad? I can share it with all my friends!" Oh, how I love that woman! She's unabashedly my biggest fan and so much so that she got me a speaking gig at her hometown high school - [it takes a village to raise a disciple](https://bobiann.com/it-takes-a-village-to-raise-a-disciple/) - If you've known me (or read this blog) for 5 minutes, you know I'm pretty passionate about my role as a parent. I believe wholeheartedly in the sacred influence given to parents and I want to steward it well. It is for this reason, Jared & I wrote Home--a Devotional for Families to help equip - [when we stop thanking, we start complaining](https://bobiann.com/when-we-stop-thanking-we-start-complaining/) - Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.” Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky. --Philippians 2:14-15 I read Philippians 2:14 with a friend in college about not grumbling or complaining. We began discussing it and wondered what - [modeling gratitude](https://bobiann.com/modeling-gratitude/) - There's an obvious theme happening throughout some of my posts recently! I'll give you three guesses and the first two don't count! Sticking with the theme of the moment, I thought I'd jump on video today and talk about modeling gratitude. These are only a couple of ideas of how to model gratitude and I - [sutherland springs--responding to the tragedy and horror](https://bobiann.com/sutherland-springs-responding-to-the-tragedy-and-horror/) - The kids were lacing their shoes for school, as the news blared of another mass shooting--this time in a church--First Baptist Church, Sutherland Springs, Texas. Jared looked at me over their heads with a question in his eyes communicating "do we let them watch? or do we shield them?" We have often chosen to expose - [when my life was knocked off of self-centered](https://bobiann.com/when-my-life-was-knocked-off-of-self-centered/) - I read the words "It's not about you."--the first four words of Rick Warren's best-selling book The Purpose Driven Life. It's embarrassing to admit how profoundly those words hit me as a 23-year old youth minister's wife. I had graduated from college, entered into marriage and discovered I had no idea who I really was and - [when you wonder if He really cares](https://bobiann.com/when-you-wonder-if-he-really-cares/) - Through my recent study and personal interactions, I've come across a theme...if God really cared, why did "this" have to happen? Why didn't He stop it? How could a good God allow such suffering? These are questions people have asked for hundreds of years--If God is good, why do bad things happen? I'm not suggesting - [a change in season](https://bobiann.com/a-change-in-season/) - I thought I'd catch you up on what's happening. I've been busy. I've been traveling and speaking and continuing to write but things are about to slow down in one department while they pick up in another. Many of you know that my husband serves as Lead Pastor for our church in Round Rock, Texas. - [Dealing With Betrayal: 18 Ministry Experts Weigh In](https://bobiann.com/betrayal/) - It wasn’t so long ago, I began feeling a deep ache in my chest as my chin began to tremble and I came to terms with the reality of betrayal. An individual who I respected and to whom I submitted my loyalty didn’t reciprocate. The grief was intense and soared through me with feelings of - [Are You a Writer Who Feels Inadequate?](https://bobiann.com/are-you-a-writer-who-feels-inadequate/) - As I continue the Ask The Blogger Series, today's questions target the heart of a writer. However, the truths aren't specific to writers...they are true for anyone who steps out with an obedient heart and then wonders, "Now what?" The two questions in today's Ask The Blogger video are: 1. Do you ever experience feelings - [How Do I Juggle Ministry and Family?](https://bobiann.com/how-do-i-juggle-ministry-and-family/) - Today is the first video for the website in a series I've entitled Ask The Blogger. Several weeks ago, I asked those on our email list to shoot me some questions they would ask if the two of us were sitting down for a private chat! Wow! I received such a great response, I couldn't - [Unintended Target--A Book Review](https://bobiann.com/unintended-target-a-book-review/) - I've been known to review lots of books but my favorite to review are the ones written by friends. I say "favorite" with a mix of emotions. I love to talk about the works of people I actually know but on the flip side, I always get a little nervous when I start a book - [#Called](https://bobiann.com/called/) - Words aren't adequate to express my affection for today's guest post writer. I adore Kari Long. She's my person. I text her when I need someone to understand my sarcastic (sometimes mistakenly inappropriate) quips about social situations. You know when you are sure someone had too much plastic surgery and you really need someone else - [What Are You Doing With the Empty Spaces in Your Life?](https://bobiann.com/what-are-you-doing-with-the-empty-spaces-in-your-life/) - I don't even know how to introduce this post. I've sat in tears reading it because of the woman who so bravely wrote it. Kari Long is one of my dearest friends in all the world. Kari's story is one of redemption and hope. I am so honored to do ministry alongside Kari. You can - [5 Most Popular Posts of the Last Two Years](https://bobiann.com/5-most-popular-posts-of-the-last-two-years/) - This month I'm celebrating TWO years of blogging. I thought it would be fun to go back and look at the five most popular posts over the last two years and then an exciting announcement for what's coming for the future of bobiann.com at the end of this post! So, let's get started: 5. When You're - [How Well Does Anyone Really Know You?](https://bobiann.com/how-well-does-anyone-really-know-you/) - How well does anyone really know you? Is there someone in your life who has a good grasp of who you are? It is your Spouse, a girlfriend, your sibling, a parent or a co-worker? I’m not talking about someone who simply sees the surface stuff, but deep down, who knows your heart? When we - [Kati Ann's 3rd Grade Letter](https://bobiann.com/kati-anns-3rd-grade-letter/) - Kati Ann and I share a little notebook where we write letters to one another. We don't do it all the time but I try to write her a note on special days in her life. Yesterday was Kati Ann's first day of school in Round Rock. It has been a summer of many changes - [When To Step In and When To Butt Out](https://bobiann.com/when-to-step-in-and-when-to-butt-out/) - There was a woman referred to as wise. She lived in the Jewish town of Abel. Abel was respected and known for its wisdom. However an evil man--a traitor of King David had infiltrated the town and David's troops were barreling into the sleepy town like a freight train. Typical of a bunch of hot-headed - [Are Fake ID's Okay For Christians?](https://bobiann.com/are-fake-ids-okay-for-christians/) - I had a plan for the topic of today's blog. I was going to talk to you about balance and figuring out how to prioritize your life (you know, because I've got it mastered! please don't miss the sarcasm.) However, my expertise on balancing it all will have to wait because my heart is heavy. My - [Parenting Is Hard and Other Obvious Statements](https://bobiann.com/parenting-is-hard-and-other-obvious-statements/) - I need to take a minute and just talk about parenting for a second. Parenting is hard. The sky is blue, 2+2 is 4 and the earth revolves around the sun. I’m not trying to simply state the obvious but sometimes it has to be said. Parenting. Is. Hard. We’ve reached the point in our summer - [Letting Go of Perfect](https://bobiann.com/letting-go-of-perfect/) - I had the sweet opportunity to teach at the Ignite Conference at Willowbrook this weekend. The title of my topic was Letting Go of Perfect. I may have been there to speak into the hearts of women on the topic, but God had to step on my own toes before I ever stood before others. - [Understanding The Second Part of the Trinity](https://bobiann.com/the-second-part-of-the-trinity/) - I'm sitting in my office. It's a Sunday afternoon. I'm drinking my afternoon coffee pondering a passage of Scripture sitting in front of me on one of those daily inspirational desk thingies. Will you join me as we explore together the truths of Scripture? Will you allow God's Word to take you in? Now the Lord - [Nobody's Cuter Than You--a Book Review](https://bobiann.com/nobodys-cuter-than-you-a-book-review/) - If you follow me on social media, you may have seen me reference Nobody's Cuter Than You. My posts on social media may have given away my affection for this book and may even cause you to think this blog post redundant. However, I would be amiss if I didn't give you the detailed version - [Are American Christians Really Experiencing Persecution?](https://bobiann.com/are-american-christians-really-experiencing-persecution/) - I've stayed pretty quiet (at least on the blog) about the current events that have happened in recent weeks. Please know my silence has absolutely nothing to do with a lack of courage or whether I'm ashamed or unashamed of Christ. My silence has to do with the behavior of some who claim the title - [Seems Time For Another Update](https://bobiann.com/seems-time-for-another-update/) - I've taken several weeks to share some insight on the discipline of community and in those weeks, life has gone on in the Allen family. We have continued our transition into a new life in Texas. For those of you new to this blog you can read about our journey beginning with: Our Big Announcement This - [Burned by the Church but You Still Love Jesus](https://bobiann.com/burned-by-the-church-but-you-still-love-jesus/) - Over the past several weeks, we have explored the spiritual discipline of community. To read previous posts on this topic click the below links: Community 3.0, Community 3.1, Community 3.2 The discipline of community evokes a fluttering in my stomach and a race of my pulse. The affection I feel towards the church is fierce. - [Community-3.2](https://bobiann.com/community-3-2/) - Over the last few weeks I've shared with you a series on the spiritual discipline of community. These are excerpts from an unpublished book I've written entitled Room To Move. The first two posts in this series are: Community 3.0 and Community 3.1 To read more excerpts from Room To Move, you can choose the Room To - [Community 3.1](https://bobiann.com/community-3-1/) - Today's post is the second in a series about the spiritual discipline of community. To read the first post in the series click here. Show And Tell When both of my kids were in preschool they had a favorite day of the week. Though three years apart, on an almost daily basis both would ask - [Community 3.0](https://bobiann.com/community-3-0/) - Some of you are already aware that I have written a book. It is entitled Room To Move and is not yet published for a number of reasons (namely the fact that our lives have been a little upside down since last summer and I have put the pursuit of publishing on hold). I don't, - [We're In!](https://bobiann.com/were-in/) - We did it! We bought a house and moved in! I mentioned in my previous post how much I had hoped to tell you we had bought a house and moved in by last week but it just hadn’t happened last week. This week it has and we love our home. There are boxes everywhere, wall - [Plans Have Changed A Bit](https://bobiann.com/plans-have-changed-a-bit/) - Things have been crazy. In the last few weeks we have moved half way across the country literally over the mountains, through the woods and through a stinkin' flood zone. I shared with you in my last post, how we safely arrived in Round Rock at our adorable little house directly across from the church. We - [The Rains Came Down and the Floods Came Up](https://bobiann.com/the-rains-came-down-and-the-floods-came-up/) - For previous episodes of our continuing saga regarding our journey to Round Rock (including why we're moving to Round Rock in the first place), you can check out these posts: Temporary Residents, 5 Attitudes That Will Help You Find Contentment In The Gap, and Our Big Announcement It is hard to wrap my brain around - [Temporary Residents](https://bobiann.com/temporary-residents/) - Nothing reminds one of their temporary residence on Earth like being displaced from their earthly residence. I'm certainly not the first to find myself transitioning between interim locations on the way to a more stable situation. I've thought a lot about those that have found their home destroyed by natural disaster or had spouses deployed--neither - [Looking for a Great Family Devo?](https://bobiann.com/looking-for-a-great-family-devo/) - We are constantly looking for great books to do for our Family Devotions. We've tried several that I mentioned here. However, we're really stuck on one that I have to share with you! My family loves Duck Dynasty. (I'm afraid we relate a little too much to their red-neck schemes!) However, whether or not you're - [Our Big Announcement](https://bobiann.com/our-big-announcement/) - I know what you're thinking. You see "big announcement" and you think I'm pregnant. Sorry to burst your bubble but that's not the announcement. I'll get down to it for those of you that just want the scoop. We're moving. It was more than two years ago that God began working in our hearts regarding our - [Practicing The Presence of God--2.4](https://bobiann.com/practicing-the-presence-of-god-2-4/) - This is the final post in the series Practicing the Presence of God. To read more from this series you can check out the category on the side bar called "Room To Move" or click on one of these previous posts: Practicing the Presence of God 2.0 Practicing the Presence of God 2.1 Practicing the - [Practicing The Presence of God--2.3](https://bobiann.com/practicing-the-presence-of-god-2-3/) - Today, we are continuing a series on Practicing the Presence of God. We are going step-by-step learning how to practice the presence of God. To review earlier posts in this series click the following: Practicing the Presence of God 2.0 Practicing the Presence of God 2.1 Practicing the Presence of God 2.2 In our last - [Practicing the Presence of God--2.2](https://bobiann.com/practicing-the-presence-of-god-2-2/) - We finished last week's post, looking at Moses and the first step towards learning to practice the presence of God. The first step is to: Get Determined. Today, we're looking at the second step. Step 2: Be Prepared I love the story of Moses and the Israelites. The Israelites remind me a lot of me. They - [Practicing the Presence of God--2.1](https://bobiann.com/practicing-the-presence-of-god-2-1/) - Last week, I began a series related to practicing the presence of God. You can read the first post here. I finished the post with a promise to visit the life of Moses for some insight into practicing God's presence. If you visited Exodus 34, you find a story of Moses entering into the presence of the - [Practicing The Presence of God--2.0](https://bobiann.com/practicing-the-presence-of-god-2-0/) - I've offered a preview of some of what I've written in my unpublished book Room To Move on Spiritual Disciplines earlier this year. I took a break for other posts and our online Bible Study. So, I thought I'd come back to it for a few weeks. Be watching for more posts over the next - [How To Deal With The Silence of God](https://bobiann.com/how-to-deal-with-the-silence-of-god/) - It was about a month of ago, I was sitting at lunch with a friend as she shared her story with me. She began to tell me about her husband being offered a job. The job itself was an honor. It was a step up the ladder, if you will. She recounted how together they - [If You Want Me To](https://bobiann.com/if-you-want-me-to/) - Do you remember the story of Shadrach, Meshach, and Abendago? They were three men committed to following God. The commitment was not met without resistance. In fact, their commitment was literally tested by fire. Their faith was challenged. Do you really want to sacrifice your very life for "this God"? So you really think your - [Mothering From Afar](https://bobiann.com/mothering-from-afar/) - As a child you have no idea what will become of the friends you played Barbies or had spend-the-night parties with. One of the sweetest things for me is to see how God chooses to use some of my childhood friends in extraordinary ways. Michelle Kopp is one of those friends. I love seeing the - [It's In The Details](https://bobiann.com/its-in-the-details/) - This past weekend, we hosted Leighann McCoy and Ginny Owens at Willowbrook for the women's event we call Ignite. It just might have been my favorite event to date. God spoke to my heart so clearly through both the worship and the teaching. I snuck a text to my husband as I sat in the - [It's Okay to Not Be Okay](https://bobiann.com/its-okay-to-not-be-okay/) - We need each other. A simple enough statement--of course we need each other. I love community. I love the church. I love ministry and I love helping those in need. I don't, however, love being the one needing someone else. It's Okay to Not Be Okay I've convinced myself its not okay for me to - [I'll Take a Holy Spirit Combo](https://bobiann.com/ill-take-a-holy-spirit-combo/) - A few weeks ago, I started a little series relating to one particular passage. I discussed the second and third part of the Trinity as we find in the first part of the passage. Today we're going to look at the concept of freedom related to the Holy Spirit. The passage we've been looking at - [You Can Know the Future of Your Kids](https://bobiann.com/you-can-know-the-future-of-your-kids/) - If you've followed this blog very long you've heard me mention a book entitled Spiritual Warfare for Women. It is simply one of the best books I've read on spiritual warfare. As I read it, I felt a distinct connection with the author, Leighann McCoy. Just by reading her book I was sure she and - [Is Valentine's Day Just Another Greeting Card Holiday?](https://bobiann.com/is-valentines-day-just-another-greeting-card-holiday/) - What do you think--is Valentine's Day just another holiday concocted by the greeting card companies? Does it exist just to remind those without a special someone of that fact (as if the reminder were really necessary)? For the sake of argument I did a little research on the origin of Valentine's Day. What I discovered - [The Third Part of the Trinity](https://bobiann.com/the-third-part-of-the-trinity/) - I sat in church this morning and was reminded why the Trinity mattered. Not because the sermon was about the Trinity because it wasn’t. As Steve Lacy preached he reminded us of how important it is to know truth for yourself. How often do we accept “truth” from someone else without going to the source - [On Loan](https://bobiann.com/on-loan/) - I'm not sure why God has allowed me to be surrounded by so many women who challenge and encourage me but in His graciousness, He has. One of those women is Tonya Adams. Tonya has been a guest for me before. I'm stunned by her vulnerability and the insight God has allowed her. You can't - [Unforced Rhythms of Grace 1.4--The Goal](https://bobiann.com/unforced-rhythms-of-grace-1-4-the-goal/) - This is the fourth installment of Room To Move--Unforced Rhythms of Grace. In order to read previous posts please click the links below: Unforced Rhythms of Grace 1.1 Unforced Rhythms of Grace 1.2 Unforced Rhythms of Grace 1.3 The Goal Before you close the browser and write this one-off as stupid because really, you just think - [An Open Letter to Winter](https://bobiann.com/an-open-letter-to-winter/) - Dear Winter, Like it or not, you've over-stayed your welcome. I know you were scheduled to visit until the end of March but it looks like we might need you to check out sooner. I've heard they have some vacancies for you in the Caribbean. Since you don't visit them as often, it would probably - [Unforced Rhythms of Grace 1.3--The Plan](https://bobiann.com/unforced-rhythms-of-grace-1-3-the-plan/) - To read previous posts from Room To Move: Unforced Rhythms of Grace 1.1 Unforced Rhythms of Grace 1.2 The Plan If transformation isn’t my responsibility, then why are we making a plan? A plan sure sounds like what you already had that shaped the supposed “good Christian girl” at least from the outside, right Bobi - [Is Grace Dangerous for a Believer?](https://bobiann.com/is-grace-dangerous-for-a-believer/) - It is dangerous (and far too easy) to become lethargic in Christian living. Without intentionality we take God's favor and our security in Him for granted. Assurance of our salvation should produce diligence, not presumption. [Tweet "Assurance of our salvation should produce diligence, not presumption."] As believers, we have certainty when it comes to our relationship with God. - [Unforced Rhythms of Grace-1.2](https://bobiann.com/unforced-rhythms-of-grace-1-2/) - Before you think that I’m too perfect. (Right, like you really thought that!) Let me tell you about my athletic abilities. I started playing soccer when I was in the fourth grade and played all the way into high school. I would love to say that after playing for so many years I was the - [What I'm Reading--January 2015](https://bobiann.com/what-im-reading-january-2015/) - It has been a while since I reviewed any books. However, you can trust I have still been reading. I don't read very fast so I don't have a huge number of books to review but here is what I've got. Our Preschool Minister handed a book out to the ministerial staff back in the - [Unforced Rhythms of Grace--1.1](https://bobiann.com/unforced-rhythms-of-grace-1-1/) - I mentioned last week the leading I feel to begin to share with you the labor of love I have written over the past year and a half. It is entitled Room To Move and is a book about spiritual disciplines and how God uses them to make room to move in our lives. I - [What I Won't Resolve To Do This Year](https://bobiann.com/what-i-wont-resolve-to-do-this-year/) - Do you get irritated by resolutions, particularly New Year Resolutions? If something in one's life needs to change, why wait for a new year to change it? Why don't "people" (you know those people?...not me, of course!) just change when they recognize the need for change? Simple question for a complicated answer. Resolutions suggest we can - [Prepare Him Room](https://bobiann.com/prepare-him-room/) - There is nothing cuter than hearing my four year old sing "Joy To The World." Apparently, his preschool class is singing Joy To The World during the month of December prior to lunch instead of their normal Blessing song. It is particularly cute when I listen as he sings, "Joy to the world, the Lord is - [2014: The Year God Took Over My Plan Book](https://bobiann.com/2014-the-year-god-took-over-my-plan-book/) - One of the cool parts of ministry is investing in someone and later seeing them continue to be used for God's Kingdom. Elise Benton was one of my summer interns while she was in college. Elise is just fun and funny and she loves Jesus. I love how God has worked in her life in - [Why Discomfort Is The Key To Becoming The Best You](https://bobiann.com/why-discomfort-is-the-key-to-becoming-the-best-you/) - "It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are."--E.E. Cumming Do you ever take a look back? I recently began thinking about who I was when I moved to Huntsville, Alabama. I was twenty-six, pregnant with our first child and taking on the ministry to fifth and sixth graders at Willowbrook. - [You're Telling Me, You're Not Obsessed?](https://bobiann.com/youre-telling-me-youre-not-obsessed/) - Here we go, I'm about to let you in on a long-held intrigue of mine. I'm bracing myself aware some of you will judge me. However, I'm comforted by knowing the companionship of those who share my affinity. I'm totally into celebrities. I don't actually keep the paparazzi in business by buying the magazines but I definitely - [Have You Checked Under Your Window Sills?](https://bobiann.com/have-you-checked-under-your-window-sills/) - Allison Younger is one of those precious young women I had the privilege of knowing as a teenager. She was a student in our youth group in Texas and to say I adore Allison would be an understatement. This girl oozes joy. Allison recently got married and as far as I'm concerned, Paul, her new - [This Holiday Less Is More](https://bobiann.com/this-holiday-less-is-more/) - It's the holidays. Tomorrow is Thanksgiving and more than a few of my neighbors and friends have decorated for Christmas. It is the time to celebrate--a season for gratitude and happiness. Yet, too often I find myself becoming more anxious than grateful. Do you become overwhelmed by the commitments, the purchases, the obligation to be - [Finding Rest in the Yes](https://bobiann.com/finding-rest-in-the-yes/) - I've had the unique pleasure of knowing Leah Dion for several years. She and I have journeyed through ministry together long before I began leading women. Leah's journey has been especially difficult. However, I've seen God grow and shape this woman to more of His likeness. For those of you who have struggled with anxiety - [What is Leadership, Really?](https://bobiann.com/what-is-leadership-really/) - I spent the weekend at Lifeway's Women's Ministry Leadership Forum in Nashville. I was so blessed with a group of 15 amazing women from Willowbrook to travel with me. We worshiped together, ate together, dreamed together and learned together. Each of us were equipped to better lead women to Jesus. This particular conference is one - [When Coffee Isn't Just Coffee](https://bobiann.com/when-coffee-isnt-just-coffee/) - Do you ever think to yourself..."I'm totally growing up! It's like I'm a real adult now!"? Maybe you don't think such thoughts, but this is a realization that comes to me pretty often. I know...mid-30's, married with 2 children seems like a good time to recognize myself as a grown-up. It isn't that I haven't - [Warrior Up--Lesson 12](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-12/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: here Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Warrior Up-Lesson 12 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [Warrior Up--Lesson 10](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-10/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: here Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Warrior Up-Lesson 10 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [Hurry Up, Already](https://bobiann.com/hurry-up-already/) - Being a teenager is hard for almost everyone. Yet something I've noticed is the root of our teenage problems carry on well into adulthood. Jordan Hanks is an especially insightful teenager. She loves Jesus and it is impossible to not to smile around Jordan. I'm so pleased to have Jordan share on my blog today. - [The Not-So Redneck Way to Take Care of Armadillos](https://bobiann.com/the-not-so-redneck-way-to-take-care-of-armadillos/) - I'm from the great state of Texas, where the state animal is an armadillo. Yes, someone thought Texans were best represented by a nasty, armored rodent. I'm super-proud. :/ Truthfully, I am almost annoyingly proud to be a Texan. However, I had never experienced armadillos in Texas the way I have in Alabama. Every - [Warrior Up-Lesson 11](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-11/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: here Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Warrior Up-Lesson 11 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [Busy, Excited and In Love](https://bobiann.com/busy-excited-and-in-love/) - Jared & I have had the fun opportunity to get to know Kelsey Carlisle through pre-marital counseling. We have known her fiancé, Andrew, for quite some time but have only recently had the privilege of getting to know Kelsey. Jared & I have been able to sit and share our experiences in marriage and ministry - [Working Out is Totally Optional](https://bobiann.com/working-out-is-totally-optional/) - The offender was coming down the field with the ball. I braced myself as I intently watched and prepared for my impending move. I was the goalie for the high school soccer team. Diving in the air to defend my goal was a normal part of the position and I was ready. I had faithfully - [Warrior Up-Lesson 9](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-9/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: here Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Warrior Up-Lesson 9 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [He Promised To Pay Off The National Debt](https://bobiann.com/he-promised-to-pay-off-the-national-debt/) - I recently read an interesting report. In 1994, a 67-year-old carpenter named Russell Herman died in Illinois. In his last will and testament, Mr. Herman left $2.4 billion to the town of Cave-In-Rock, $2.4 billion to the community of East St. Louis and $1.5 billion for projects in southeastern Illinois. That's pretty amazing--but there's more! - [If I Don't, Who Will?](https://bobiann.com/if-i-dont-who-will/) - To think I've served at Willowbrook for almost eight years and only gotten to know Bethany Donham within the last year seems a travesty to me. I've had the opportunity of serving alongside and getting to know Bethany at our Hampton Cove campus. I had long loved her mother-in-law (who serves as a mentor in - [I Was Grossly Over-Charged on My Vacation](https://bobiann.com/i-was-grossly-over-charged-on-my-vacation/) - This past week was Fall Break in Huntsville. We decided this would be a good week to do something fun with our kids. I had a speaking engagement in Texas at the end of the week so we all piled in the SUV bound for Texas. This vacation was for our kids. I'm okay saying - [Warrior Up-Lesson 8](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-8/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: here Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Warrior Up-Lesson 8 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [All We Need Is Jesus](https://bobiann.com/all-we-need-is-jesus/) - I've had a love for teenagers for a long time. Teenagers who "get it" astound me! Eliza Capps is such an amazing young lady who seeks God. I love her heart and I love all God is teaching her. I'm excited to have her back on the blog again today. You can read more from - [Crockpot Breakfast Casserole](https://bobiann.com/crockpot-breakfast-casserole/) - It has been a while since I've given you a recipe. I chuckle to myself every time I think of me putting any recipe in print because domestic diva I am not. However, my family does like to eat, therefore, I cook. I love to find easy quick ways to prepare a meal and the - [So, I'm Writing a Book--An Update](https://bobiann.com/so-im-writing-a-book-an-update/) - It has been almost a year to the day since I started writing a book. I've shared some of that journey in a previous post with you but it has been a while since I've updated you. There have been several developments in the course of this project. Most of the developments have been spiritual - [Warrior Up-Fall Break](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-fall-break/) - This week is Fall Break for Huntsville City Schools. In an attempt to keep the online study in sync with the "live" study, we are taking a week off. Please take advantage of this time to catch up on lessons you have missed and to participate in the on-going discussion in the comments section of - [Why I Am A Christian](https://bobiann.com/why-i-am-a-christian/) - In Friday's guest post, I introduced you to my new blogger friend who happens to also be a youth pastor's wife. She wrote Friday's compelling post about the season of life she is walking through. I told her I would be happy to return the favor and write for her. She came back to me with - [Warrior Up-Lesson 7](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-7/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: here Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Warrior Up-Lesson 7 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [The Friends We Need](https://bobiann.com/friends-we-need/) - If you know much about me you know I'm not the kind of person that walks up to a stranger & says "Hey, you want to be friends?" But, that is almost exactly what I did (virtually) with Liz von Ehrenkrook. I'm not sure who found who first but at some point I was following - [Warrior Up--Lesson 6](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-6/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: here Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here Warrior Up--Lesson 6 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [Citizen--A Book Review](https://bobiann.com/citizen-a-book-review/) - I have anxiously awaited the day I could write this review for you. Early this summer, I had the opportunity to go to London on a mission trip. The missionary we served there with is Rob Peabody. Rob also happens to be the author of Citizen. It is hard for me to write this review - [How To Navigate the Unknown](https://bobiann.com/how-to-navigate-the-unknown/) - I have a 4-year-old named Kie. To say I adore Kie would be an understatement and at 4 he has already become quite independent. However, it wasn't that long ago, Kie was standing at the top of our stairs as we were about to walk down. He reached out his hand, looked up at me - [Do You Really Know the Purpose of the Local Church?](https://bobiann.com/do-you-really-know-the-purpose-of-the-local-church/) - I wanted to try something a bit different this week. I want to hear what you think. I read a quote this week that I wanted to discuss with you (as in actually discuss). "What is the purpose of the local church? This may be a surprise but it's not to preach the gospel. The - [Warrior Up-Lesson 5](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-5/) - Homework to be completed BEFORE watching the video: here Listening guide: here Completed Listening guide (Blanks filled in): here - [Kindness, Is It Really That Simple?](https://bobiann.com/kindness-is-it-really-that-simple/) - One of the fun things about blogging is meeting ministry partners virtually. One such ministry partner is Elizabeth Winn with Living Well Ministry. Her post is one that will remind you of a simple yet vitally important component to marriage. To read more from Elizabeth and Living Well you can visit her blog here. A - [What I'm Reading This Summer](https://bobiann.com/what-im-reading-this-summer/) - I don't just read during the summer but something about summer and reading just go together. So, I thought I'd share with you what I've been reading this summer with a few comments and maybe you'll share with me some of what you've been reading this summer. I started Leighann McCoy's book Spiritual Warfare for - [A Long, I Mean Really Long Drive (and a Book Review)](https://bobiann.com/this-is-too-good-not-to-share/) - I mentioned in my post last week that I made the long drive from North Alabama to central Texas over Spring Break. If you aren't one that has spent much time traveling, the 14 hour drive would be intimidating. However, if you are like me and now a seasoned traveler over the course of 7 - [The Mended Heart--A Book Review](https://bobiann.com/the-mended-heart-a-book-review/) - If you a regular follower of my blog, you may feel like I've already reviewed The Mending Heart because this is the third mention of the book. But this is the official review. I agreed to review The Mended Heart by Suzanne Eller because of our connection through Bible Gateway Blogger Grid. I thought it - [A Secret Moment with Sue](https://bobiann.com/a-secret-moment-with-sue/) - Oh my goodness, I love this post! Welcome to the private conversation of my friend, Sue and God. It's hard to not have your heart touched as you glimpse into such a cherished moment. To read more from Sue you can visit her own blog here or a previous guest post here. Having just returned - [Warrior Up-Lesson 4](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-4/) - Homework to do BEFORE watching lesson: here Listening Guide: here Completed Listening Guide (blanks filled in): here Please note: discussion is under the comments section...click on the comment button to access discussion questions. Warrior Up-Lesson 4 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [De-Romanticizing Your Faith](https://bobiann.com/de-romantizing-your-faith/) - Have you ever fallen in love? When Jared & I started dating, we couldn't get enough of being together. We ate together, watched TV together, went to church together. We loved being together. We were one of those couples that didn't date long before we tied the knot. So, naturally, we had grand visions of - [The Battle With My Body](https://bobiann.com/the-battle-with-my-body/) - This post stunned me. Not because I didn't know this story but because of the vulnerability & courage I know it took to share it. Danielle Sinopoli is hidden in Jesus. She longs to give Him all of her and that is evidenced no better than through the transparency of this post. You may not - [bobiann.com Is Turning 1 & Fun Prizes](https://bobiann.com/bobiann-com-is-turning-1-fun-prizes/) - Tomorrow marks one year since my first blog post on bobiann.com. There is a whole story of why I started this blog in the first place (one I'd be happy to share some time). But I can say in all reality, I didn't really know what I was getting into. I've grown considerably in the - [Warrior Up-Lesson 3](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-3/) - Homework to do BEFORE watching lesson: here Listening Guide: here Completed Listening Guide (blanks filled in): here Please note: discussion is under the comments section...click on the comment button to access discussion questions. Warrior Up-Lesson 3 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [Playing The Blame Game With God](https://bobiann.com/playing-the-blame-game-with-god/) - Amanda Yarbrough was the interim preteen minister when I came to Willowbrook to fill that position. I remember seeing her and thinking, "What is she like 12?" Amanda appears on the outside to never age. However, I've had the privilege of walking a journey with Amanda where God has grown her. Her spiritual maturity astounds - [Warrior Up Lesson 2](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-2/) - Homework to do BEFORE watching lesson: here Listening Guide: here Completed Listening Guide (blanks filled in): here Warrior Up-Lesson 2 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [I Love My Job](https://bobiann.com/i-love-my-job/) - I don't necessarily use this venue to discuss much about my actual (for-pay) job. But, did you know I have the amazing privilege to minister to women at Willowbrook Church in Huntsville, AL? I don't begin to do it alone. I have so many women that serve alongside me. We recently had our kick-off event where - [The Search for Acceptance](https://bobiann.com/the-search-for-acceptance/) - I love Jamie Helms. I've had the opportunity to serve the Kingdom with her from afar. We've crossed paths and loved the same people but never really served together up close. That's starting to change. I love that I'm having more opportunities to spend time with Jamie. I asked her to share on my blog - [Warrior Up-Lesson 1](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-lesson-1/) - Homework to do BEFORE watching lesson: here Listening Guide: here Listening Guide with the blanks filled in (for those of you like me who can't stand to have blanks not filled in) aka "the Answer Key": here Warrior Up-Lesson 1 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [I'm A Sucker For A Crime Show](https://bobiann.com/im-a-sucker-for-a-crime-show/) - I'm a sucker for a crime show. The problem, the alleged victim, the suspense and the clues draw me in to the sordid plot. I analyze and hypothesize who the criminal really is. The legal drama hasn't gotten old to me. I've been hooked since my first Dragnet followed by Maxwell Smart a.k.a. Agent 86, - [Dear Parents, They Really Are Listening](https://bobiann.com/dear-parents-they-really-are-listening/) - My daughter is seven and the girl is no dummy. Quite the opposite actually. She understands social cues better than a lot of adults I know. When her father and I are trying to have a conversation regarding a topic we don't want her to hear, she quickly picks up on our attempt at subtlety - [Warrior Up--Introduction](https://bobiann.com/warrior-up-introduction/) - Here is a 3-minute video with more details and information about our online study. Intro-Warrior Up from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [How to Create the MARRIAGE CONNECTION of Your Dreams:](https://bobiann.com/how-to-create-the-marriage-connection-of-your-dreams/) - I like to provide you with good resources. If you are local to Huntsville, I wanted you to know of an opportunity to invest in your marriage with Carl & Julie Stewart on August 22-23. Both Carl and Julie are licensed counselors and have helped so many couples discover a healthy, God-honoring marriage. I hope - [When We Wonder If God Forgot](https://bobiann.com/when-we-wonder-if-god-forgot/) - Melissa Culley, who I know as Melissa Newman, is one of those women that I hold close. I don't talk to her that often but I know her heart and it so echoes my own I sometimes feel as if she is much closer than she is. I can go months without seeing her and - [The Art of Thinking Sensibly](https://bobiann.com/the-art-of-thinking-sensibly/) - I recently attended the SheSpeaks Conference in North Carolina. It was great and I learned a lot. However, some of what I learned would probably not be the things the speakers may have intended. As I sat in breakouts and listened to the keynotes (the people teaching me how to be like them), I felt - [Trust and Obey? or Obey and Trust?](https://bobiann.com/trust-and-obey-or-obey-and-trust/) - I love the wisdom of women that have gone before me. That is what I've received from Cindy Kennedy. Cindy & her husband, Andy, are the parents of 4 amazing children and serve on the mission field internationally. I love getting share the heart of a woman that I respect and have gleaned so much - [4 Simple Ways to Take Jesus Back to School](https://bobiann.com/4-simple-ways-to-take-jesus-back-to-school/) - You may have a few more weeks but school starts in my town on August 5. I know some of you may be ready to hand your kid the backpack and lovingly shoo them out the door. But not me, I'm not ready for summer to be over. I'm not ready to give up mornings - [What I Won't Be Praying for My Child's Teacher This Summer](https://bobiann.com/what-i-wont-be-praying-for-my-childs-teacher-this-summer/) - This is the last week of school in Huntsville, Alabama. It marks the end of our family's first year involved in the public school system. I feel myself breathing a huge sigh of relief. We made it! We did it! I'm certain I'm not the only parent (or teacher) breathing such a sigh. However, the - [Who Is God To You?](https://bobiann.com/who-is-god-to-you/) - I'm amazed every week by what God lays on my guest's hearts. This particular post really humbled me. I think so highly of Amy Wright. She is a woman who loves God and really lives it out. I think you'll be moved by a glimpse into her heart and what God has shown her. As - [11 Reasons Your Child Cannot Miss Summer Camp](https://bobiann.com/11-reasons-your-child-cannot-miss-summer-camp/) - Our 7-year-old, Kati Ann, was at Winshape camp last week. I've been involved with camp for close to 25 years as a camper, counselor, or director and now for the first time as the parent of a camper. I saw camp from a whole new perspective as the parent and this new vantage point only - [Is This What Faithful Looks Like?](https://bobiann.com/is-this-what-faithful-looks-like/) - I've known Jana Spooner since we were babies. We have almost eerily followed a very similar life path, attending and graduating from the same colleges and seminaries, working with students in ministry and transitioning into the world of literature and writing at almost the exact same time. I won't bore you with the details, but - [Here's What's On Her Mind](https://bobiann.com/heres-whats-on-her-mind/) - This post is a little different and I love different. It's fun to mix things up. When I asked Kristin Walker to guest post, she eagerly agreed and chose to write just like she was meeting you, my reader for the first time. I love that! Kristin and I have known each other almost since - [A Little Oil For An Empty Jar](https://bobiann.com/a-little-oil-for-an-empty-jar/) - You never know when you'll run into a new person--someone you really like. Debbie Gillingham is someone I met on my trip to London and someone I found charming right away. Debbie is a believer on a mission in London to reach the lost and make Jesus famous--you know, pretty much what every believer is - [My Allegiance Has Changed](https://bobiann.com/my-allegiance-has-changed/) - As a natural born citizen of the United States of America, I have been raised to take great pride in my citizenship. My grandmother was a history professor for 41 years and in combination with my mom who holds a Bachelor's degree in History, the sacrificial road to our freedom and patriotism has not been - [See Community Differently](https://bobiann.com/see-community-differently/) - I met Jenna Lorick at East Texas Baptist University. She was Jenna Draper then and my college roommate. Jenna married her college sweetheart about a month before I married mine and we both entered into the crazy, exciting life of a pastor's wife. I'm excited for you to hear Jenna's heart in today's post. To - [3 Ways To Have a Marriage that Honors God](https://bobiann.com/3-ways-to-have-a-marriage-that-honors-god/) - Let's be honest, marriage is just hard sometimes. Jared & I are approaching our 13th year of marriage and though, I married a man who is more than I could have dreamed of, we too, have had seasons that were just hard. Our society has painted a picture of a "happily ever after" that doesn't - [4 Ways to Go Deep in Bible Study](https://bobiann.com/4-thoughts-on-how-to-go-deep-in-bible-study/) - For 15 years, I worked with teenagers or pre-teenagers. I took seriously my job in disciplining students because they were young and needed to be taught the fundamental skills of personally interacting with God. Since entering into a role that involves more interaction with adults, one of the key things I've noticed is that many - [5 Ways How NOT to Make a Friend](https://bobiann.com/5-ways-how-not-to-make-a-friend/) - I work with women which means I deal with relationships A LOT! Women are relational beings. Which is why we have a ministry just for women. We need each other. However, for most women when we think of our greatest hurts, they usually involve other women. It's a sad truth...often as women we allow petty - [What If No One Else Sees In Me What God Does? ](https://bobiann.com/what-if-no-one-else-sees-in-me-what-god-does-giveaway/) - I'm reading through Suzanne Eller's book, The Mended Heart (God's Healing for Your Broken Places) for a book review that I will post when I finally finish it. However, as I was reading, I stumbled upon this question: What if no on else sees in me what He does? My heart stopped because I realized that - [What I Learned from Diego about Letting Go of Control](https://bobiann.com/what-i-learned-from-diego-about-letting-go-of-control/) - I've been praying for a while about really specific things that God wants from my life. #2 on my list is Letting Go of Control. That sounds fun, huh? I don't want that to be on the list. But I felt like God put it on my list! Ouch! So, just when I think I've - [I Am Good At Life](https://bobiann.com/i-am-good-at-life/) - There are some people that just get you. It is as if you are cut from the same cloth. That's how I feel about Elesha Maynard. When she submitted this post to me, I melted because it was as if she took a page from the book of my life. I read this post and - [My Heart Is Still "Buffering"](https://bobiann.com/my-heart-is-still-buffering/) - I'm home from London. I could quite easily label my time in London as one of the most spiritually significant of my life. I hesitate to write a line that holds so much promise because I am unprepared to tell you why. Not because it is a secret but because I feel like my heart - [Why I Didn't Want To Go On A Mission Trip](https://bobiann.com/why-i-didnt-want-to-go-on-a-mission-trip/) - Sunday, June 8, 2014 As I write this post, I'm sitting in my London hotel room about half way through our mission trip. I dreaded this trip to London. There, I said it. I knew I felt God's tug to come. Yet, working out the details to actually make it happen is like an advanced - [1 Dose of Vitamin R](https://bobiann.com/1-dose-of-vitamin-r/) - I'm so grateful for godly women God has put in my life that I look up to and admire. Deanna Wood is one of those women. The more I get to know Deanna, the more I respect her. She has a heart for God and is a vessel to be used for His purpose. I'm - [Breaking The Dividing Wall](https://bobiann.com/breaking-the-dividing-wall/) - Have you ever stumbled into a relationship that turned into one that you truly cherish? That is what happened with Shelly Hollis. She sent a mass mail-out to several women's ministers in our area that landed on my desk. Usually, I would look at something like that and toss it but not this time. I - [Why I'm Going Across The Pond](https://bobiann.com/why-im-going-across-the-pond/) - I was a high school senior when I first travelled "across the pond." I went with the local community college's choral program on tour to Great Britain. I was barely 18 when we entered the Greenwich Navel Academy to attend church and take communion. As we toured different cathedrals and churches, I was struck by the - [What To Do When Your Hurt Needs Healing](https://bobiann.com/what-to-do-when-your-hurt-needs-healing/) - It takes about 5 seconds to scroll through your Facebook newsfeed to know people are hurting. Some people put it out for everyone to see but others carry around their pain more privately. I mentioned a couple of weeks ago that I am reading a book called The Mended Heart by Suzanne Eller to review for the blog - [Dear 16 Year Old Me](https://bobiann.com/dear-16-year-old-me/) - (an open letter I would write to my16 year old self, if I could.) Dear 16 Year Old Me, Oh, dear one, if you only knew...if you only knew all that is ahead. It's probably best you don't because the truths I would like to share with you probably wouldn't be as meaningful if you - [When You're Missing Your Happily Ever After](https://bobiann.com/when-youre-missing-your-happily-ever-after/) - I've had the privilege of getting to know Greta Simmons through the women's ministry of Willowbrook. She always has a friendly smile & a heart hungry for Jesus. I'm so excited for you to read her story in today's guest post. Several months ago Bobi Ann announced at an event that she wanted us to - [What's It Like To Be On The Other Side of Me?](https://bobiann.com/whats-it-like-to-be-on-the-other-side-of-me/) - March has arrived. For the month of March, I've asked 4 men that have had a godly influence in my life to be the guests on the blog. It was no easy task narrowing it down to 4. I'm blessed to interact with so many godly men. Without question, however, the most influential man - [Finding Peace In The Sacrifice](https://bobiann.com/finding-peace-in-the-sacrifice/) - Have I mentioned to you that I have amazing parents? They live far away and I miss them but they get to love on people right where they are. One of those people is Emily Keller. When my parents moved 3 years ago to a new town they met Emily and her family and - [Prayer, Passion, and Purpose](https://bobiann.com/prayer-passion-and-purpose/) - I've had the opportunity of getting to know Amanda Boozer through our Thursday morning Bible study time. I love to hear her excitement for God. Amanda shares some of her story of how she has walked and grown in her relationship with God in today's post. Enjoy hearing from my friend, Amanda Boozer. Even at - [A Reason? A Season? A Lifetime?](https://bobiann.com/a-reason-a-season-a-lifetime/) - There is a fantastic worship song with the line "break my heart for what breaks your's." Oh, man, if only our hearts were broken for the things that break God's heart. I love when I get the honor of knowing women who have a heart for the things on God's heart. Kerri Wellendorf's heart is - [We Cannot Chase Perfection for We Will Never Catch It](https://bobiann.com/we-cannot-chase-perfection-for-we-will-never-catch-it/) - Anna Grider has recently finished her freshman year at Mississippi State University. Anna is something special. I've had the opportunity of being on the receiving end of Anna's giving spirit. She has loved on my family in a way that I can't begin to repay. My children adore her. And as far as her learning - [An Open Letter to My Local Church Family](https://bobiann.com/an-open-letter-to-my-local-church-family/) - As I stood during the worship music at one our campuses on Sunday, I watched one of my precious friends lead worship. As I stood there, I was moved by her heart. I know her. I know her story, her obedience, her struggles and I had the privilege of standing there and worshiping with her. - [When Friends Become Idols](https://bobiann.com/when-friends-become-idols/) - As I pray about who to ask to guest post, I'm amazed at who God has already stirred even in ways they aren't aware. Amanda West is what I might consider a friend of a friend. I've always known her through someone else until recently. I've had the opportunity to doing Bible Study with Amanda - [The Hungry Caterpillar by Kie Allen](https://bobiann.com/the-hungry-caterpillar-by-kie-allen/) - In honor of this little dude's birthday today, I give you "The Hungry Caterpillar" The Hungry Caterpillar from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [Hidden Shoes and the Goodness of God](https://bobiann.com/hidden-shoes-and-the-goodness-of-god/) - I love a good story and Tracie Collier is a woman that can tell a good story. I'm so honored to serve on staff with Tracie at Willowbrook but also to journey alongside her on her own writing journey. I know you'll enjoy reading Tracie's account from her childhood. To read more from Tracie, you - [Thoughts From Outside The Vending Machine ](https://bobiann.com/thoughts-from-outside-the-vending-machine/) - The car wash is quite a treat for my children. Not because they get to drive through or watch the brushes scrub the windows from inside the vehicle. That’s not the kind of car wash we go to. We frequent a car wash where you get out and your car is guided through a tunnel. - [The Danger of Dreaming](https://bobiann.com/the-danger-of-dreaming/) - Last summer I taught a Bible Study on Joseph (you know they techno-colored coat guy). Joseph was a dreamer. In fact, we often refer to Joseph as "Joseph the Dreamer" because God did, in fact, give Joseph dreams at an early age and later allowed him the ability to interpret dreams. Through the course of - [While We Wait...](https://bobiann.com/while-we-wait/) - Writing this blog has been such a joy for me as I've shared my little online space with some men and women that I admire and journey alongside. I love to reach back a few years in my life to people who have encouraged and loved on me. Shelly Binford is one of those people. - [34 Things I've Learned in 34 Years](https://bobiann.com/34-things-ive-learned-in-34-years/) - I celebrated my 34th 29th birthday on Sunday. Wow, what a year it has been. A lot has happened since this time last April. I've grown as a wife, mom, minister and person in the last year. As I was considering what God has taught me in the last year, I began to think of - [Why Your Choice to Follow Christ Matters for the Generations to Come](https://bobiann.com/why-your-choice-to-follow-christ-matters-for-the-generations-to-come/) - It's Spring Break in North Alabama this week. For my little family that means we hop in the car and trek home to Texas to be with our family. Every year about this same time, the women (my grandmother, aunts, sister-in-laws, girl cousins) in my family set aside a weekend to go antiquing and just - [The Best Laid Plans](https://bobiann.com/the-best-laid-plans/) - You never know when you are going to stumble upon a new friend and sister in Christ. Julie Thomas is that for me. I had the privilege of sitting across from her at lunch a few weeks ago as we swapped stories of what God is doing in our lives through writing. Julie (and her - [Those Bitter Roots](https://bobiann.com/those-bitter-roots/) - Today's guest post is from my friend, Sandy Campbell. Sandy is an amazing Bible teacher and has such a powerful influence on those around her. I'm honored to serve alongside Sandy and so excited that she would share today with you my reader. It's Spring, Yea!! So here I am, out digging in the dirt. - [Let It Go](https://bobiann.com/let-it-go/) - Today is the last installment in our Men of March series. I've been so honored to hear from 4 men that are making a difference for the kingdom. Today's post is from John R. Evans. I've been honored to do ministry alongside John and his precious family during my days of preteen ministry. John is FCA - [When Your Christian Bubble Bursts](https://bobiann.com/when-your-christian-bubble-bursts/) - Week 3 of our Men of March series brings my Sunday School teacher, Russ Eiland. I've known who Russ was for a while but have only gotten to know him in the last year when I joined his Sunday School class. I discovered that Russ and I share many of the same passions regarding our - [Hearts Get Broken](https://bobiann.com/hearts-get-broken/) - During the month of March, I've asked 4 godly men that have influence my life to guest post on the blog. It has been 14 years since I served a summer with Ryan Dalgliesh in San Antonio, TX. Time flies. Ryan knew me in my earliest years of ministry and the impact Ryan left most on - [#1stworldprobz](https://bobiann.com/1stworldprobz/) - Written on March 5, 2014 at 2:07 p.m. I really get frustrated when things don't go my way. Present example: sitting in my living room with no sound except the tick of the clock. It's quiet and a little dark at 2:07 in the afternoon. Kie is upstairs sleeping and I'm alone downstairs. Wait. That - [An Interview with Mandy Bedingfield](https://bobiann.com/an-interview-with-mandy-bedingfield/) - I've mentioned in a previous post that Jared and I have just transitioned out of more than 15 years of student ministry. We may not work directly with teenagers anymore, but our experience has left a warm place in our hearts for students and student ministers. Recently, Willowbrook called a new student minister to our - [Bootcamp & A Spy Glass](https://bobiann.com/bootcamp-a-spy-glass/) - I've always thought that Jesus endured suffering on earth so He could relate to us as humans. I imagined He had to come down to earth...almost like a human-suffering boot camp. If He was going to be a Savior, He had to learn to relate to us. So, as any good parent would, God did - [Cheerleader of a Different Sort](https://bobiann.com/cheerleader-of-a-different-sort/) - I can't believe it but this fantastic magazine called Shattered published one of my articles. It's a story that my students used to love to hear me tell. The story made them laugh, even though there was so much more to the story then the funny part! It's a story of my awkward days in - [Cream Cheese Banana Nut Bread](https://bobiann.com/cream-cheese-banana-nut-bread/) - Every Monday, I try to share with you a review on a Pinterest find that I've tried. Most of the reviews are ones that I have loved and can't wait for you to try. Today, not so much. I found this recipe for Cream Cheese Banana Nut Bread that sounded like a slam dunk. Banana - [Messy Delight](https://bobiann.com/messy-delight/) - I've been waiting on today's guest post since I started this blog. I first heard the pretty side of Jennifer Cody's story over 2 years ago. I was enthralled by the way God moved through a painful hard situation. I've continued to hear parts of the story as they have unfolded and have always loved - [Hidden Pain](https://bobiann.com/hidden-pain/) - I love my kids. I do. But, really, what is it with the moment that you sit down, get yourself comfortable, that they insist they are starving and need a snack? Can someone please explain this to me? No, never mind…don’t. That was me just before Christmas, I had slid my shoes off and sat - [Marshmallow Towers](https://bobiann.com/marshmallow-towers/) - 3 Days! I was in my house with a 6-year-old, a 3-year-old and a 34-year-old for 3 days! We were losing our minds. I began to see moms with creative activities on Facebook during our imprisonment snow adventure and decided maybe I needed to step it up a bit. Truthfully, I couldn't get too creative - [A Burning Fire in My Bones](https://bobiann.com/a-burning-fire-in-my-bones/) - One of the super-cool parts of my job is doing ministry beside some really phenomenal people. I'm so excited about having Sharon Glasgow at Willowbrook February 28-March 1 for Ignite. I wanted to give you, my readers (whether Willowbrookers or not), the blessing of hearing Sharon's heart through today's guest post. If you are in - [4 Life Lessons We Learn From Our Children](https://bobiann.com/4-life-lessons-we-learn-from-our-children/) - Children have an amazing perspective on life. Here are 4 Life Lessons we learn from our children. 1. It's NOT about you. Rick Warren begins The Purpose Driven Life with those same four words. However, nothing makes those 4 words sink in quite as deeply as becoming a parent. When all you want to do - [Reclaimed. Renamed.](https://bobiann.com/whats-in-a-name/) - Cate Ange first made it on my radar through an email she sent a friend. I was so moved by her words in that email that I asked her to share on the blog. I hope you enjoy today's guest post by Cate. “Just share what makes you unique”, Bobi Ann said. Seriously? I have - [Hungry for Attention](https://bobiann.com/hungry-for-attention/) - Thought I'd mix things up a bit with a video today about the ways God gets our attention. After you watch this 5-minute video check out the verse below out of The Message translation of the Bible. Powerful words regarding the promise of God. Attention from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. “Give your entire attention - [A Monogram...of Course](https://bobiann.com/a-monogram-of-course/) - As a girl born and raised in the south, I truly appreciate the value of a monogram. If you aren't from the south, it might seem hard to understand why southerners enjoy initials on everything. To be honest, I'm not sure if I understand it, either. However, I do know I like it. So, I - [Forgetting My Purpose](https://bobiann.com/forgetting-my-purpose/) - Jared and I are coming out of 15 years of student ministry this month. It is hard to wrap my brain around not having teenagers play such a huge role in our lives anymore. However, it doesn't change our warm affection for them. We respect the challenges they face and recognize the difficulty of maneuvering through - [Homeless Packets](https://bobiann.com/homeless-packets/) - As a couple who both serve in vocational ministry, Jared and I spend A LOT of our time planning intentional opportunities for spiritual growth for those we work with. We sit though hours of meetings and make countless phone calls all with the purpose of nurturing spiritual growth. However, there are 2 little people who - [How to Remove Mildew Smell from Towels](https://bobiann.com/how-to-remove-mildew-smell-from-towels/) - My dishrags had developed a horrid odor. I would take them right from the drawer and begin to wipe down the counters. I would walk away and my hands smelled of a soured rag. I would wash it again but discovered it still smelled bad. I couldn't get the smell out. So, again, I turned - [Freedom to Doubt](https://bobiann.com/freedom-to-doubt/) - There are some people who you don't have to know very long to know they are something special. They bubble over with enthusiasm for life and an authenticity that challenges and inspires. Emily Rogers is the definition of bubbling over! I've had the treat of crossing paths and working with Emily through Shattered Magazine. She - [The In-Between & a Giveaway](https://bobiann.com/the-in-between-a-giveaway/) - Maybe it's because I'm a first-born or just really Type A, but I'm a goal-setter, an achiever. I don't mean that in a "look at me" kind of way. It just is. It's who I am. So, for me, a new challenge, a new goal is exciting. It becomes a driving force to keep me - [The F Word](https://bobiann.com/the-f-word/) - No, not that one. Come on...really? I mean, I guess, I could write a post on THE F-word, but I'm not. The F-word I'm talking about is "Forgive." It's not four-letters, but it might as well be. Don't get me wrong. Forgiveness is a good thing. It heals, it restores and I really like receiving - [When Ripping Seams Brought Me To My Knees](https://bobiann.com/when-ripping-seams-brought-me-to-my-knees/) - I'm thrilled to share today's guest post with you. Sharon Powers is my dear friend that after serving in the American church (on staff with me) felt God lead her into the international mission field. I've been so honored to be part of Sharon's journey as I regularly pray for her and got to be - [Why It's Godly to Get Away](https://bobiann.com/the-power-of-a-get-away/) - Jared and I had the fantastic opportunity to get away on Veteran's Day without kids. We were only gone about 28 hours, but it was marvelous. We didn't go far just about an hour down the road from our home in Huntsville to a secluded cabin at one of our favorite camps. We had a - [Slow Cooker Ribs](https://bobiann.com/slow-cooker-ribs/) - First, I should mention that before Saturday, I'd never cooked ribs in my life. As a Texan, that's shameful and I'm about to make it worse by confessing that my only time to cook ribs was in a crock pot but well, it is. With all that said, these slow cooker ribs that I found - [Italian Sausage Gnocchi Soup minus the Italian Sausage](https://bobiann.com/italian-sausage-gnocchi-soup-minus-the-italian-sausage/) - It is so cold almost everywhere right now. When it is cold, I want warm soup. I found this fascinating recipe for Italian Sausage Gnocchi Soup on Pinterest. I discovered Gnocchi a couple of years ago and was immediately smitten. However, I don't like Italian Sausage. So, I improvised. Instead of Italian Sausage, I used - [When God says Wait: My Journey with Secondary Infertility](https://bobiann.com/when-god-says-wait-my-journey-with-secondary-infertility/) - I met Laura Nickelson in the Spring of 2012. She sat in my Thursday morning Bible Study and as I got to know her precious heart, I was crazy about her. Laura has a fantastic blog that inspires me to beautify my home and make it a sanctuary for my family. I can't wait for - [Are You Afraid of What 2014 Holds?](https://bobiann.com/are-you-afraid-of-what-2014-holds/) - While everyone else gears up for the New Year, are you not quite as excited? Are you afraid of the what plans God might have for your 2014? Check out this 5-minute video (my first video-blog) about dealing with fear of God's plan for your life. New Year 2014 from Bobi Ann Allen on Vimeo. - [Prepping for 2014](https://bobiann.com/prepping-for-2014/) - I'm throwing you for a loop I'm sure by posting on a Tuesday, but tomorrow is New Year's Day...it's 2014, people! Can you believe it? A new year is always a good time to think on changes and starting new good habits. You only have to be with me about 3 minutes to know that - [New Beginnings](https://bobiann.com/new-beginnings/) - Tonya Adams is quiet and kind and not usually in the spotlight, but once you get to know her it's hard to not love her. She has a huge heart and I love to see what God is doing in and through her. She's a great wife, mom and friend. I know you'll enjoy Tonya's - [Scripture Cards](https://bobiann.com/scripture-cards/) - Do you ever wish there was a cute way to post Scripture around your house without spending tons of money? Well, maybe you haven't thought that, but I have. I found these adorable cards on Etsy through Pinterest. The Etsy store has cards for kids and cards for adults. I have 2 sets but there - [Redefining Shattered](https://bobiann.com/redefining-shattered/) - I met Rachael Jackson through her written word before I met her in person. Rachael is the Founder/Editor in Chief of Shattered Magazine. I was moved by her writing in the magazine and felt compelled to know more about the person behind those words. I'm so thrilled that Rachael is sharing her story and the - [And Suddenly...](https://bobiann.com/and-suddenly/) - ...everything changed. Every covenant, every law, every sacrifice was replaced because of something new, something needed. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not recognize it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. Isaiah 43:19 Today, Christmas Day, we celebrate Jesus. We rejoice for He came - [Christmas M&M Cookie Mix in a Jar](https://bobiann.com/christmas-mm-cookie-mix-in-a-jar/) - In my attempt to be crafty and give gifts that had more meaning because I actually did something besides click my mouse (which I'm not judging, I still did plenty of that in preparation for Christmas), I decided to try to make some of the Christmas gifts for the kids' teachers and others. I found - [How to Love the Christian You Don't Even Like That Much](https://bobiann.com/how-to-love-the-christian-you-dont-even-like/) - Most of us have the idea of warm fuzzies in our mind when it comes to thinking about community. I see myself with a group sitting around a campfire singing. The world seems right. And most of us think community is this harmonious picture where every one gets along. We agree on everything and no - [Detox Bath](https://bobiann.com/detox-bath/) - I really wanted my December Pinterest reviews to be merry and bright and to be festive but I've been stuck in my house since Wednesday with one or both kids sick and my sanity long went out the window so I thought I'd share a review that was more relevant to my reality at the moment. - [Coming Home](https://bobiann.com/coming-home/) - Lots is said about coming home for the holidays. Kati Ann and I were listening to the Carpenters Christmas album (we can talk about the fact that I was listening to the Carpenter's in another post!) on the way to school last week and she heard the phrase, "There's no place like home for the - [Sugar & Spice](https://bobiann.com/sugar-spice/) - Laurel Blanton was one of the first women that talked to me after I took the position as Women's Minister at Willowbrook. I had never met her and she got in my face and told me that the words I wrote in our Women's Ministry newsletter were obviously directed towards her and why didn't I - [Christmas Cards on the Back of the a Door](https://bobiann.com/christmas-cards-on-the-back-of-the-a-door/) - I know lots of people are creative enough to come up with their own original ideas, but I'm so glad for Pinterest because I don't have to be as original about everything. I LOVE getting Christmas cards. L-O-V-E it! However, I want to display the cards I get throughout the season without a lot of - [Identity Crisis](https://bobiann.com/identity-crisis/) - I've only known Jamie Wincey for less than a year. So, the story she tells in today's guest post is before I really knew her. Jamie is a woman that has blessed me and taught me so much about God's redemption. To read more from Jamie check out her blog here. I haven’t worn makeup - [Why Write?](https://bobiann.com/why-write/) - If you attend Willowbrook, you heard our pastor mention during the sermon about a woman who was writing a book. The woman has small children and is dreaming big but starting small. If you don't attend Willowbrook or weren't there Sunday, you're getting the idea that our Pastor mentioned a woman who is dreaming big - [Cheesy Chicken Lasagna](https://bobiann.com/cheesy-chicken-lasagna/) - I mentioned in Friday's post What I'm Into, a recipe for Cheesy Chicken Lasagna. I realized I left you hanging so, I thought I'd give the recipe to you today. It is a recipe that I found on Pinterest and I've made it more than once. It is really delicious and not too hard. It is - [What I'm Into](https://bobiann.com/what-im-into/) - I don't have a guest post today, so I thought I'd join the blogging bandwagon of popular posts about "What I'm Into." I had to rack my brain a bit to come up with things I'm into because well, it seems like my life involves first grade homework, the never-ending season of potty training and - [The Ugly Side of Ministry & A Giveaway](https://bobiann.com/the-ugly-side-of-ministry-a-giveaway/) - So, I spent the weekend with around 850 women. Bless it. You can't imagine all the chatter and giggling, the emotions and the tears. I spent the weekend at Lifeway's National Women's Ministry Leadership Forum. I've got to admit when I step back and consider (850 leaders, that are women, in the same building for - [Don't Say That Word...You're in Church](https://bobiann.com/dont-say-that-word-youre-in-church/) - Before entering the world of women’s ministry, I served on staff at Willowbrook working with preteens. Preteens are just in a weird stage of life. They aren’t really children but they certainly aren’t teenagers. Hence, the label “Preteen.” Most preteens haven’t mastered the art of hiding yet. They say what they feel. A - [Cornbread Waffles](https://bobiann.com/cornbread-waffles/) - Something I've discovered on Pinterest is the many uses my waffle iron has. I had no idea. I thought I could only use it for waffles. Silly me...a waffle iron, only for waffles, what was I thinking? Apparently, it can be used for much more. I've used my waffle iron to make cinnamon rolls, biscuits - [Before You Get Too Excited About Christmas](https://bobiann.com/before-you-get-too-excited-about-christmas/) - Don't forget to be thankful. We're not quite a week past Halloween and the stockings are already being hung and the sugarplum fairies are getting excited. Don't get me wrong, I love Christmas. I enjoy the baking and decorating and the sparkle in my children's eyes. However, I've noticed some are so anxious to chase - [Touching You, Touching Me](https://bobiann.com/touching-you-touching-me/) - Sue Addington is a woman who I feel I would never have met had I not befriended her daughter and my, then, neighbor, Kim. Living so far from my own mother, I knew immediately that if I couldn't have my mom, Sue would be the next best thing. Unfortunately, Sue doesn't live close either. I so - [A Fairy Door](https://bobiann.com/a-fairy-door/) - I saw this adorable idea on Pinterest for a Fairy Door. The purpose of the fairy door is just to add a bit more fun to the Tooth Fairy. We put the door up shortly after Kati Ann lost her first tooth. Since then, "the tooth fairy" often leaves the door cracked when he/she comes - [I'm an Overcomer](https://bobiann.com/im-an-overcomer/) - I love to hear Stephanie Adams tell a story. She walks so closely with Jesus and always makes me smile. I'm honored that she would share her story with us today. Three years ago, as I sat and listened to the Physician’s Assistant in my OB’s office, I realized I had to make a - [Nolan's Story](https://bobiann.com/nolans-story/) - Jared and I had dinner with Michael and Ashley Smith our first Sunday in Huntsville, AL. Ashley and I were both pregnant, at the time, with our oldest daughters. I immediately felt a connection with her because we had so much in common, silly things that I won't bore you with. 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